DZoolander
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Gotta be honest - both are just bizarre to me. I can't imagine a scenario where "I just banged someone else" and "we're going to stay together" are part of the same stream of thought...so I really can't answer your question as to which I'd prefer.
I suppose if I HAD to answer it - I'd go for the first one - because the infidelity hasn't taken place yet. But, it would make me lose a lot of respect for the partner.
"If my needs go unmet, I'm going to go have an affair" suggests that they're gonna come back home afterward. No, you do that, and you're not coming back home. So might as well say "...I'm going to divorce", because that's what's going to happen.
I suppose if I HAD to answer it - I'd go for the first one - because the infidelity hasn't taken place yet. But, it would make me lose a lot of respect for the partner.
"If my needs go unmet, I'm going to go have an affair" suggests that they're gonna come back home afterward. No, you do that, and you're not coming back home. So might as well say "...I'm going to divorce", because that's what's going to happen.
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