Would you rather have your spouse sit you down and say, "Look, I love you, but if some things don't change soon, if my needs do not get met, I will be SERIOUSLY tempted to have an affair..."
OR
Be sat down and told, "Look, I am sorry, but I have had an affair, it was purely physical, non-emotional, just sex..."
I think sometimes we are so afraid to hurt our spouses feelings, rather than tell them JUST WHAT WE FEEL, we try to deal with it on our own until we finally make a bad decision...
Thoughts?
OR
Be sat down and told, "Look, I am sorry, but I have had an affair, it was purely physical, non-emotional, just sex..."
I think sometimes we are so afraid to hurt our spouses feelings, rather than tell them JUST WHAT WE FEEL, we try to deal with it on our own until we finally make a bad decision...
Thoughts?