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GodOwnsMe

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it feels kinda bad to ask for help again........I'm just

getting farer/further.. away from God. I just can't really trust

him to love me or whatever..I always think I am like unacceptable.

It won't stop I just cant get out..I'm feeling guilty and I know I so can't manage my life without God at all.

Well thanks for listening......God Bless YOU people..I love ya :wave:
 

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hang in there, don't lose sight of Him. He's constantly by your side.... you just need some time to get closer to Him. I'm praying for you.

I just can't really trust him to love me or whatever..I always think I am like unacceptable.

1 Corinthians 1:27
But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.
 
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Praying for you! I am just wondering if you have someone close to you that you could talk about your feelings with, such as a Sunday School teacher, a youth director/pastor, a minister, etc... These people could certainly help you get back on track with God. I also would suggest just spending time each day with God, in prayer and reading scripture. Just tell Him you feel far from Him and ask Him to draw you closer to Him. He wants a personal relationship with each of us and longs for us to ask Him to be close to us. Hang in there! Let us know how you are doing!
 
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I am actually feeling pretty much allright.....weird......thank you so much for the advice and prayers though..things have been going great.. I am just still confused
yes there are people I could talk to ..you're probably right I should do that..

right to be honest I actually talk to God a lot..now I'm just feeling all empty ..nothing..I'm afraid anymore so I guess its allright........

just wanted to say you guys are awesome......May God BLESS YOU :)
 
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yeah its like I wether depend all on him and feel like.......super-great..then I just cant believe it and feel completely upset.............I'll be praying for ya :):) ..can't say why but you've actually just been a huge encouragement to me..its like I know I'm not alone with that:)..so God Bless ya & good night !!
 
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Praying for you!

may i make a suggestion, your might want to check brendan manning's Ragamuffin gospel...I think it would be a great help to you.

Ep. 3:16-19 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you
with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge — that you may be filled to the measure of all the fulness of God.
 
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so I'll just try to get the stuff thats going on in my mind together...maybe one of you can help me....

so there was a time when I tried to really follow God and do it right. Well...something went wrong..I couldn't deal with

all the pressure anymore, I really pushed myself.. like

imagine you've read like a million devotions, stuff in the bible

and just try to live it.

I always 'told myself' like thats how life works......

which is sure true.

Then..being like scared of ANY must, I kept telling myself God would love me whatever I did and that would be enough.

Recently I just couldn't believe that anymore and all the peace and everything went. I realize that my life doesn't work so well anymore in many aspects, some things got better.

I try to see it more like I'm just walking 'around' with God and I am

like forwarding any responsabilities and pressure to him.

There was this devotion about our walk with God being like a (tandem) bike ride.....that one has helped me soooooooo

 much..its just that I 'jump off' way too often and feel like

messing up so much.

Its just I am trying to do stuff out of love to God....I dunno if I can ever do it because of responsabilty or being afraid of what happens when I don't again (I used to do that a lot)

right I dunno what exactly my problem is.......it just felt kinda good to write it down :):)

so God Bless you and have an awesome day everyone !!
 
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Dear Father, I just ask that you be close to GoDowNsMe. Help her to feel your presence in her life. Show her how to have a relationship with you that is built on trust. Help her to trust you and to give you all of her feelings of confusion right now. Please place people in her life that set a good example for her and that she could talk to about some of these confusing questions in her life and about her faith. I just pray that she will feel you working in her life and leading her to You. In Jesus name, Amen.
 
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Dear Father, so often there are times when we let doubt and uncertainty creep into our thoughts and unknowingly allow these thoughts to fester. We know these thoughts do not come from you but from the enemy, satan. Our youth seem to have it the hardest at times. Please show these young ones You do love them. Fill their heads with scripture so they can fight this battle and come out of it stronger and more committed to You. I believe in my heart that Go. and KTF seek to have a relationship with You and are on the right track, they just get alittle side tracked at times and need You now more than ever. Give them the power to fight the advesary and come out a winner on your winning team. Show them people in their life who they can talk to. Sometimes all they need is a listening ear. Help us all here at christian forums to unite together and be a family to these kids. They need us and we need them. More importantly, though, we all need You. :bow:
Go, please hear me on this one. There is absolutely NOTHING you can do that God will no longer love you. He loves you because you are His. You have accepted Jesus into your heart and that tends to get the devil a little ill. Work very hard on your personal relationship with Him. When you do this it gives satan less and less room to breed doubts and fears into your heart and head. Life is filled with ups and downs, but you keep looking ahead. And when satan tries to trip you up and tries to get you to question your future, you remind him what is gonna happen in his future! You are very special, to God, to us. Find some good christian friends who can help lift your spirits up when you get sad and confused. And, another thing, satan hates scripture. All the more reason why you memorize and study the bible. Live your life, not in uncertainty or discord. Live it in confidence and conviction. He will not forsake you or no longer love you. Jesus died for you as well as for me. Grow with Him and you will be alright. Email me anytime, please. I am praying for you. Thanks for giving me the chance to :help:
 
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Originally posted by wvmtnkid
Dear Father, I just ask that you be close to GoDowNsMe. Help her to feel your presence in her life. Show her how to have a relationship with you that is built on trust. Help her to trust you and to give you all of her feelings of confusion right now. Please place people in her life that set a good example for her and that she could talk to about some of these confusing questions in her life and about her faith. I just pray that she will feel you working in her life and leading her to You. In Jesus name, Amen.

Father I am standing in agreement with this prayer in Jesus name - Amen
 
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wow you guys are SO GREAT :):)......BigEd I am not sure if I can get that book cause I'm not from the US or England or whatever.........
but that would be cool I'll see.. anyway thank you soooo much for your advice and prayers.....I always feel them its amazing...I know that shouldn't be a suprise but its like almost scary :) erm.. thank God !!

..thanks a bunch for all those blessings Auntie..so I got the belt of truth and a helmet I think..that stuff rocks

mel.........that was soo great cause I'm like always so in the extremes and totally focused on something I like totally forget some stuff....
there was a time when I was seriously like.......go away Satan any time those kind of thoughts would enter my head.......it kinda worked I just got tired and my thoughts would get real weird and scary
thank you so much for just being there.......I sometimes can open up pretty easily to people especially on the internet but sometimes I get so confused I just have no clue what to tell people...........................
May God Bless you all I LOVE YA !!!!!!!!!
 
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