where are the good men?

[WileyCoyote]

where are the good men?

Probably the same place all the good women are.

 

[Inkachu]

Yeah, the good men marry the good women and make good little children...

And the rest of us are...?

 

[CrusaderKing]

Probably the same place all the good women are.

That's what I was going to say.

 

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

Well, like I just posted in the same thread but asked of men....

It's not about there not being someone. It's about what God has for us. Or if we are Christians that's what it should be. For me, I want to be with someone, but I am staying in God's will and will not compromise that. If it's in His will it will happen and nothing can stop that. He could have it happen tomorrow even if I don't think I know any men that I could date. But if it's His will for me to be single, then that's where I want to be. I want to be in His will even if that means giving up my desires and working through that. Doesn't mean I'm always happy with it, but I am much happier in my saddest moment now, then I was when I was with someone and the relationship was not committed to God and wasn't founded on Christ.

 

[namelessjuan]

There are good men out there, just like there are good women out there.

But like any treasure worth finding, they often take time, hard work, patience, prayer and wisdom to discover.

And digging?

 

[smacarena]

Have you checked Walmart?

 

[555onetwothreefour]

Odds are, most of you women know one and don't see it.

 

[hikingchick77]

Hmm, not sure, I'll let you know when I find one where we was! Been dating various guys for like over 1/2 a year now - think I am up to 23 guys I dated, and not one even turned to a friendship let alone anything more. Some wanted more...but really, they were not good guys! I can write a book on my bad dating experiences!

The few that were "good" we really didn't keep in contact cause there just wasn't enough common ground or enough to talk about, or I said I wasn't interested in a relationship with them, just a friendship and I never heard from them again. There was not one that I could really see myself in a relationship with, even as time went on and they grew on me. Just didn't click, I guess???

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

right here,too much a hippie for any girl though.

 

[Llauralin]

too much a hippie for any girl though.

What does that mean?

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

What does that mean?

most girls dont like my long hair I suppose. I run around barefoot most the time...sandals in winter. Im a weirdo.

 

[hikingchick77]

most girls dont like my long hair I suppose. I run around barefoot most the time...sandals in winter. Im a weirdo.

And your from Canada! Doesn't your feet get cold?

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

And your from Canada! Doesn't your feet get cold?

Lol I dont get cold much ever. and 75 degrees is too hot lol.

 

[Llauralin]

most girls dont like my long hair I suppose. I run around barefoot most the time...sandals in winter. Im a weirdo.

Mmm... that sounds unlikely - the guys I know with long hair and odd fashion sense are attractive enough in their way - except it's a good idea to either keep the hair neat or do full out dreadlocks, because otherwise it's just messy. There are still hippie girls... just the Christian ones go more for the aesthetic and environmental side of things, and not so much for free love. But that does sound kinda cold on the feet, and there's glass and stuff in the streets sometimes...

 

[deepgreen11]

Come to think of it, I know quite a few. What type would you like?

You know, they should make a vending machine. Would you like a lo-carb Mr. Good-Man Bar, or one with caramel inside? Would you like one who's a little sarcastic? Those ones are in the orange bag and they are spicy and crunchy. Or would you like one that's sweet? You'll find Mr. Good-Man Soft-n-Sweet Cookies on the bottom row! Or "curiously strong" Altoid Atta-boy Good-Man Mints!

Maybe I know too many good men, and I'm hogging them all to myself.

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Mmm... that sounds unlikely - the guys I know with long hair and odd fashion sense are attractive enough in their way - except it's a good idea to either keep the hair neat or do full out dreadlocks, because otherwise it's just messy. There are still hippie girls... just the Christian ones go more for the aesthetic and environmental side of things, and not so much for free love. But that does sound kinda cold on the feet, and there's glass and stuff in the streets sometimes...

Well, I had a girl the other day said she loved my hair, too bad she was 16 haha.

Oh, dont get me wrong, I am an environmentalist and hold a minor in environmental sciences. Dreadlocks are nasty. Free love is kinda weird, I advocate peace though.

Most people think my views and opinions are a little "extreme" and I have a rather twisted sence of humour. Most things Christians find offensive, I dont really. Some people need to lighten up a little.

 

[hikingchick77]

Lol I dont get cold much ever. and 75 degrees is too hot lol.

Wow, I am a wimp..lol! 75 feel perfect, and anything under 60 is cold to me!

 

[smacarena]

Lol I dont get cold much ever. and 75 degrees is too hot lol.

Yea, I hear ya. So what am I doing in the heat & humidity of the Southeast? I just like torturing myself.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

...

Welcome to CF!

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Yea, I hear ya. So what am I doing in the heat & humidity of the Southeast? I just like torturing myself.

Apparently, we had a week here in the 90's and I was dying lol.