For those of you who have "lost" a child (which you really haven't, but for lack of a better word) ...
What helped you deal with the death of your child?
My (second) daughter was almost four months old when she died. She was born with a lot of internal problems (they called it goldenhar syndrome) and she had to be tube-fed from birth. She spent her first month in the hospital - doctors said that her future would consist of a lot of corrective surgeries.
One day during a routine doctor's visit she suddenly turned blue and four days later she died of "congestive heart failure".
My faith in God and knowing that I would see my daughter again is what helped me the most to get through the grief and loss.
Having another daugther two years later also helped me to heal.
When people ask me how many children I have - I still include her in the count - but then I have to explain where the "missing" child is - which in a way gives me an opportunity to share my faith in God.
What helped you deal with the death of your child?
My (second) daughter was almost four months old when she died. She was born with a lot of internal problems (they called it goldenhar syndrome) and she had to be tube-fed from birth. She spent her first month in the hospital - doctors said that her future would consist of a lot of corrective surgeries.
One day during a routine doctor's visit she suddenly turned blue and four days later she died of "congestive heart failure".
My faith in God and knowing that I would see my daughter again is what helped me the most to get through the grief and loss.
Having another daugther two years later also helped me to heal.
When people ask me how many children I have - I still include her in the count - but then I have to explain where the "missing" child is - which in a way gives me an opportunity to share my faith in God.