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Please note: this thread is in the Egalitarian forum.
Something I've been thinking about in the last little while.
I've been very fortunate in ministry that by the time I recognised my vocation, my church (at least where I live) ordained women. While I've had to stare down various rude or bullying or belittling people (at college and in congregations), ordination wasn't closed off to me because of my sex.
And when I've looked for ministry jobs, although my choices are more constrained than my male colleagues because some places won't take a woman, I've never had to worry that I wouldn't be able to find work.
But there are still situations where the door is shut. (For example, I recently refused to work with the Gideons on something because they don't accept women as members. Told them I won't support a Christian organisation which doesn't treat men and women as equal in God's sight. Oddly enough they never replied to that email; but I digress...)
And I wonder; when it's your church, or somewhere you belong, and the door is shut, how do you decide what to do? Do you stay and protest and agitate for change (which is, after all, how we got women's ordination in the first place; the people who worked for that really fought hard)? Do you wipe the dust off your feet and find somewhere better? (Easier today than it used to be). Is there any alternative to those two approaches that doesn't see you gradually crushed at the injustice and the lack of integrity?
Some of you have much more lived experience of this than I do, and I'd be grateful for any insight you might share.
Something I've been thinking about in the last little while.
I've been very fortunate in ministry that by the time I recognised my vocation, my church (at least where I live) ordained women. While I've had to stare down various rude or bullying or belittling people (at college and in congregations), ordination wasn't closed off to me because of my sex.
And when I've looked for ministry jobs, although my choices are more constrained than my male colleagues because some places won't take a woman, I've never had to worry that I wouldn't be able to find work.
But there are still situations where the door is shut. (For example, I recently refused to work with the Gideons on something because they don't accept women as members. Told them I won't support a Christian organisation which doesn't treat men and women as equal in God's sight. Oddly enough they never replied to that email; but I digress...)
And I wonder; when it's your church, or somewhere you belong, and the door is shut, how do you decide what to do? Do you stay and protest and agitate for change (which is, after all, how we got women's ordination in the first place; the people who worked for that really fought hard)? Do you wipe the dust off your feet and find somewhere better? (Easier today than it used to be). Is there any alternative to those two approaches that doesn't see you gradually crushed at the injustice and the lack of integrity?
Some of you have much more lived experience of this than I do, and I'd be grateful for any insight you might share.