How about putting yourself in the position of the unborn child?
As long as the unborn child is not threatening the life of the mother. It appears that it is only in modern times that the fetus takes precedence over the importance of the mothers well-being.
Judaic laws allowed for the aborting of a child if it was deemed to be a threat to the mother. It amounted to being an act of self-defence.
From the didache.
Chapter 2. The Second Commandment: Grave Sin Forbidden. And the second commandment of the Teaching; You shall not commit murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not commit pederasty, you shall not commit fornication, you shall not steal, you shall not practice magic, you shall not practice witchcraft,
you shall not murder a child by abortion nor kill that which is born.
Source:http://www.earlychristianwritings.com/text/didache-roberts.html
That was the position the Church took for the first few hundred years but after Augustine it appears to have shifted to abortions being allowable in the first 40-80 days based on the [FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Aristotelian concept of "
delayed ensoulment.
Some significant rulings in history were:
[/FONT][FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Starting in the 7th century CE, a series of penitentials were written in the West. These listed an array of sins, with the penance that a person must observe as punishment for the sin. [/FONT]
An abortion required only 120 days of penance.
The conclusion that early abortion is not homicide is contained in the first authoritative collection of canon law accepted by the church in 1140. This collection was used as an instruction manual for priests until the new Code of Canon Law of 1917.
[FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Pope Innocent III (?-1216) wrote a letter which ruled on a case of a Carthusian monk who had arranged for his female lover to obtain an abortion. The Pope decided that the monk was not guilty of homicide if the fetus was not "
animated."[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Early in the 13th century, Pope Innocent III stated that the soul enters the body of the fetus at the time of "
quickening" - when the woman first feels movement of the fetus. After ensoulment, abortion was equated with murder; before that time, it was a less serious sin, because it terminated only potential human life, not human life.[/FONT]
[FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Pope Sixtus V issued a Papal bull
"Effraenatam" in 1588 which threatened those who carried out abortions at
any stage of gestation with excommunication and the death penalty.
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[FONT=trebuchet ms,arial,helvetica]Pope Gregory XIV revoked the Papal bull shortly after taking office in 1591. He reinstated the "
quickening" test, which he said happened 116 days into pregnancy (16½ weeks). [/FONT]His declaration in 1591 that early abortion was not grounds for excommunication continued to be the abortion policy of the Catholic Church until 1869.
In 1869, Pope Pius IX officially eliminated the Catholic distinction between an animated and a nonanimated fetus and required excommunication for abortions at any stage of pregnancy.
Historically the Church has flip-flopped on the abortion issue and even the Protestants have differing rulings depending on time and denomination.