For me, the biggest issue is women not being allowed into the priesthood.
This goes back to the "claptrap" bit.
If you were to ask the average Mormon woman, she'd tell you that she didn't want the priesthood. The higher up one is, the more time demands it places on the holder and, by extension, the entire family; family time is a rare commodity once a person becomes a bishop or branch president, and once you get up to the stake level you're not even guaranteed a regular sleep cycle. This is why the church has the individual members doing visitation (getting the members to know each other + taking that burden off of the clergy), and why the Relief Society is such a key part of the church (they handle local-level charitable and humanitarian work). It's also why local-level clergy are usually rotated out every 5 - 8 years.
Most of the people I've seen calling for women to have the priesthood generally don't understand this, and either regard having a clergy position as something that one can just phone in or mistakenly presume that it's a paid vocation (it's lay ministry at the local level).
It's kinda like the folks who call on Mormon women to wear pants to church as a protest, only to realize that there's nothing stopping women from doing so in the first place. In fact, I live next to a major military base, and so it's quite common to see members from both genders come in wearing their uniforms; it's understood that they have duty at some point in the day and so there's simply no time for them to change.
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