What's on your mind?

[bèlla]

Don't.

There is no need to give up hope and effort. You are far too young for that. As am I.

You're a catch. The woman who gets you will be spoiled and well treated. That's a blessing.

 

[bèlla]

*smooching the hermit and laughing* You've been very busy @publichermit! I saw the other post.

 

[public hermit]

*smooching the hermit and laughing* You've been very busy @publichermit! I saw the other post.

Which post was that?

Yeah, I keep reading things, which prompts questions, then I start a thread, which helps keep me from reading! It's not a perfect system, by any means, lol. But, all in all my research is coming along nicely.

 

[bèlla]

Which post was that?

The music thread.

Yeah, I keep reading things, which prompts questions, then I start a thread, which helps keep me from reading! It's not a perfect system, by any means, lol. But, all in all my research is coming along nicely.

I've noticed. Keep it up! I like your threads.

 

[SarahsKnight]

You're a catch. The woman who gets you will be spoiled and well treated. That's a blessing.

I think the blessed one will be me. ^-^

 

[DragonFox91]

Traditional women like mature gentleman with kind dispositions. We value courtesy, stability, and protection. We want benevolent leaders whose support and presence are unwavering. They're dependable and we count on them.

We don't like flakes, fakes, or jerks. We value authenticity and transparency. You don't need to be perfect but you've got to be real to win our hand.

Be yourself.

Don't every woman that wants a meaningful, long-term marriage partner want that tho? That's too general.

 

[bèlla]

Don't every woman that wants a meaningful, long-term marriage partner want that tho? That's too general.

I've answered your question. I'm traditional and aid women like myself. If you want to believe otherwise that's fine.

 

[DragonFox91]

I've answered your question. I'm traditional and aid women like myself. If you want to believe otherwise that's fine.

I agree, there's just got to be more, right?

 

[bèlla]

@public hermit I just saw this and thought of you (and your thread).

 

[bèlla]

I agree, there's just got to be more, right?

Why do you think so?

 

[DragonFox91]

Why do you think so?

Just b/c all of those are too general & for other 'types' you're able to give more. Is traditional just 'simpler'?

 

[bèlla]

Just b/c all of those are too general & for other 'types' you're able to give more. Is traditional just 'simpler'?

We spend more time on the front end than most. We're looking for fit. We tackle the deal breakers head on. That determines if going forward is feasible.

We don't try to change our guys. If a certain mold is appealing you need get him. Not turn your man into a pretzel. We don't crack a whip or drive him up the ladder. We know what we signed on for.

Leadership is desirable. You can't follow a man you don't respect. Most of us hold them in high esteem. That's a quality we look for in our interactions. The person who trips that switch.

Traditional women are very supportive and nurturing. She's in your corner. We're less likely to divorce because you screwed up or clean you out if we do.

 

[cara-mia]

@cara-mia This is epic!!!

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WOW! This is fire!

 

[cara-mia]

My show returns April 28th! *tags @cara-mia and dances*

Ooooooooooooh, I really can’t wait!

 

[bèlla]

WOW! This is fire!

Seriously! The sister love is fierce. I was listening to Destiny's Child earlier.

 

[DragonFox91]

I wish I had an exercise partner at the gym. I get sooooo bored.

I get so bored all day @ work, then I go to the gym & asking to exercise for an hour, my brain just can't handle it.

I think work has made me ADHD. I used to be able to concentrate on something forever, now I feel like I can't do anything for more than an hour max before I get bored.

I need something where you don't do the same thing all day,you're not glued to a computer screen the whole day, & you're involved in the why & how.

 

[bèlla]

@cara-mia, Little Miss brought wine. Chard and Riesling. She's such a good girl!

 

[SarahsKnight]

@cara-mia, Little Miss brought wine. Chard and Riesling. She's such a good girl!

Raising your daughter up well, I see. ^-^

 

[bèlla]

Raising your daughter up well, I see. ^-^

Little Miss is the epitome of love. She’s my greatest creation. I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve her. @cara-mia can attest to her heart and loyalty.

She’s our prize.

 

[SarahsKnight]

I just noticed this beneath your avatar, @bèlla :

u ❤️ me


.... I like it. It's simple and short but says all it needs to about a person like you. ^-^