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I was talking to an older guy last night after a church service. He tells me back in his day there was little to no psychology. Some people were just considered weird or put in a mental institution. Nowadays people are trying to psychoanalyze everyone.

I mean, he's not wrong. I've seen internet articles trying to diagnose cartoon characters with psychological disorders. Personally, I think psychology is a very long overdue science that could have saved far more lives than exorcists throughout history.
Psychology is making progress, but it's also to blame (along with psychiatry) for the dark past of the mental health industry. The field still hasn't completely emerged from the shadows:

Scientists Replicated 100 Psychology Studies, and Fewer Than Half Got the Same Results
 
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Psychology is making progress, but it's also to blame (along with psychiatry) for the dark past of the mental health industry. The field still hasn't completely emerged from the shadows:

Scientists Replicated 100 Psychology Studies, and Fewer Than Half Got the Same Results

That is true. What little good it can do is quite valuable, I think, but I do believe the world would be a much better and happier place overall if psychology were even half way to being an exact science. But we'll never truly understand, for instance, how the human brain works, no matter how far we've already come. If we did, think of all of the poor depressed and traumatized people in the world now who could be completely cured with a virtual wave of the magic wand.
 
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I just received a series of "Informative" ratings yesterday after my comradely with Multifavs - looks like @Toro's ghost is at it again. :p:ghost::eyes:
He's a ghost? o_O:ghost: I got those ratings too haha.
 
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He's a ghost? o_O:ghost: I got those ratings too haha.
Yes mam! Toro no longer posts in Singles, unfortunately. There was once an epic battle between him and the mods - an attempted mutiny to take over the forum. But sadly he was defeated, and banished forever. Many years have passed, since. Yet, his ghost still roams this forum, giving ratings to posts and attempting to continue matching as he pleases. :ghost:

His legend lives on, though! :cool1:
 
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*employs the Cinema Snob's voice again for this playful rebuke*

Ach ... Anthony, Anthony .... Look, if you are going to go for the outdated, anachronistic way of polite address towards womankind as I do, you are going to have to at least get the spelling right.

It's spelled M-A-'-A-M, thank you very much.

You have much to learn before rolling like Sarah's Knight does, sir.


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On the more solemn side, I noticed that it has finally happened, earlier tonight while at work. The Spirit told me that it wouldn't always be like this when I asked Him once about five years ago, but, the gift has been revoked. The strange gift He appeared to have given me starting one night in August of 2013 - less than a year after I had begun to heal from my bout of Scrupulosity - has now been revoked. I no longer feel the direct comforting chill that momentarily comes over me when I ask the Spirit for guidance in whether I should or should not do something, or if the way I feel or think about a certain situation that has occurred is right according to Him or morally wrong.

It is okay. I felt one last comforting touch upon my heart when I asked the Spirit to tell me just once more that at the very least, I belong to Jesus. And that is a yes. :angel: It is just that, I will no longer have the great benefit of this very personal, physical guidance from Him. I imagine this is similar to some people in the Old and New Testament who were children of God through Christ, but, the Spirit still left them at some point in such a way that they no longer have certain benefits of His power. I guess maybe it is simply time that the Lord decided I can go on from here on my own without needing my hand physically held. Just my thought. It is a great loss I have felt tonight, but, as I said before, when this strange gift first came upon me (and I assure you that I always tested the spirit I felt upon me by the standards of 1 John 4:1-3), I remember asking Him if His Spirit would eventually revoke this benefit whenever He felt it was right to do so, and it was affirmed that indeed, it would not always be like this. This ... good. But, so as I fear not death or destruction in hell because of His great love (one of my favorite verses in Lamentations 3:22-23, after all :) ), I suppose I will have to learn to make it somehow in life from here without that particular, physical guidance in which I perhaps lived more by sight than faith, and it is time to go back to doing to doing the opposite. It may be tough for a while to get used again to the way things were before that fateful night six Augusts ago when I first felt that rush of the Spirit's power in my fervent prayer to be shown was right or wrong in a particular struggle with questions that I was experiencing at the moment, but so long as the blood of Jesus Himself still covers me, I can make it. It has been a good past five-and-a-half years with this gift. That's truly what we need to ultimately succeed in life and have the hope of immortality beyond, fellow believers and unbelievers who just may not realize they need Him yet. The blood that forgives all and welcomes back to Himself forever. I will never again doubt and begin to believe such a heinous thing as His blood not being good enugh on its own to make all things right.
 
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Ach ... Anthony, Anthony .... Look, if you are going to go for the outdated, anachronistic way of polite address towards womankind as I do, you are going to have to at least get the spelling right.

Not that polite address towards womankind isn't important, but whatever you do in life you should get the spelling right.
 
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*employs the Cinema Snob's voice again for this playful rebuke*

Ach ... Anthony, Anthony .... Look, if you are going to go for the outdated, anachronistic way of polite address towards womankind as I do, you are going to have to at least get the spelling right.

It's spelled M-A-'-A-M, thank you very much.

You have much to learn before rolling like Sarah's Knight does, sir.


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When I address awesome ladies, even in an anachronistic way, I put my own personal flair into it. ;)
 
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When I address awesome ladies, even in an anachronistic way, I put my own personal flair into it. ;)
Awesome ladies? :flatt: Well, you're an awesome guy! :oldthumbsup:

There are many awesome guys and ladies on CF. ;)
 
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Awesome ladies? :flatt: Well, you're an awesome guy! :oldthumbsup:

There are many awesome guys and ladies on CF. ;)
Aww, why thank you! :flat4::ok::sohappy::blush:

Yes, there are many awesome guys and Multi-awesome ladies on the forums. :oldthumbsup::oldthumbsup:
 
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It's been around 20'F here, but that's still warmer than -20'C (which equals -4'F). o_O That's cold!

I think I've finally got some good ideas for a prologue and epilogue to Metroid: Mission Alpha! Now we'll just have to see how long it takes me to get started on them. :p
 
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It's been around 20'F here, but that's still warmer than -20'C (which equals -4'F). o_O That's cold!

And a lot colder than the predicted temperature here tomorrow, which is 30°C (86°F). :blacksunrays:
 
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And a lot colder than the predicted temperature here tomorrow, which is 30°C (86°F). :blacksunrays:
That's quite warm! But it's summer right now where you live, isn't it?
 
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That's quite warm! But it's summer right now where you live, isn't it?

It is. It would be rather worrying to have that temperature in winter. :)
 
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If I remember correctly, back in my school days if the temperature was above -20'C, we had to go outside and play during recess. If it was below -20'C or so, we would have to stay inside for recess. If the temperature exceeded -30'C, it was a snow day. Windchill also plays a huge role in it. My friend who moved to Yellowknife, Northwest Territories claimed she had to wait for the bus in temperatures as low as -40'C.
Yikes, that's cold! :eek: The coldest temperature I remember seeing here was -16'F (about -26'C).
 
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