What's on your mind?

[bèlla]

I can never decide if I like Kanye West or not. I flip back & forth.

I wasn’t a fan until he started making gospel music. Some of the songs are from earlier albums. Jesus Walks is on The College Dropout. The first one he released. He admits he was supposed to do this a long time ago.

He brings a fresh sound to Christian music. I hear familiar themes, beats, and chords. He’s local and infuses his roots in the music. You won’t hear sampling and house tunes elsewhere. He’s gifted.

 

[bèlla]

Mid-Week Inspo.

 

[DragonFox91]

Keep in mind there’s two divisions of prep. Eastern and southern. Eastern is more subdued. Darker hues are the norm and coastal colors. The southern look is light and bright. Lots of white and pastels.

What's the difference? I tried searching. Eastern looks more dressed-up. Southern looks more casual. Isn't there a balance?

Here’s a few examples of preppy girls.

View attachment 295725
View attachment 295723
View attachment 295724
View attachment 295726

Oooh, I like those. 1, 2, & 3. Probably 2 & 3 more than 1. I have no idea what 4 is supposed to be. Evidently Southern prep.

 

[bèlla]

What's the difference? I tried searching. Eastern looks more dressed-up. Southern looks more casual. Isn't there a balance?

I’d call the eastern more conservative and the southern more laid back. Fun even. You can wear both looks.

Oooh, I like those. 1, 2, & 3. Probably 2 & 3 more than 1. I have no idea what 4 is supposed to be. Evidently Southern prep.

I figured you’d like 2 & 3 best. The first pair are eastern and the second set is southern. The last one is Lily Pulitzer. If you date a prep don’t mock it. She’s revered by them. Just nod and smile. It will be a costly apology.

Lily is the Palm Beach aesthetic. She does prints and solids. Southern belles love her!

 

[DragonFox91]

I’d call the eastern more conservative and the southern more laid back. Fun even. You can wear both looks.

Are there men examples? I wouldn't wear any of those 4 myself.

I figured you’d like 2 & 3 best.

The first pair are eastern and the second set is southern. The last one is Lily Pulitzer.

The first pair are eastern and the second set is southern. The last one is Lily Pulitzer. If you date a prep don’t mock it. She’s revered by them. Just nod and smile. It will be a costly apology.

I've never seen anyone wear anything like #4. I definitely wouldn't mock 1-3, definitely not 2&3. 3 is southern prep too? strange. Honestly, it doesn't seem that much more different then 1. I was originally thinking 1&2. I guess it's just the colors, really.

 

[bèlla]

Are there men examples? I wouldn't wear any of those 4 myself.

The links I gave you earlier demonstrate both. The southern style is brighter. The eastern is more subdued. I showed the latter because I assumed it was your style.

I've never seen anyone wear anything like #4. I definitely wouldn't mock 1-3, definitely not 2&3. 3 is southern prep too? strange. Honestly, it doesn't seem that much more different then 1. I was originally thinking 1&2. I guess it's just the colors, really.

You’ll see it at country clubs and resort towns. Like the Hamptons. Loud colors require simple accents. You’d tone down the hair, shoes, and accessories.

 

[bèlla]

@DragonFox91

Take up a water sport! And don’t forget the hair.

 

[SarahsKnight]

Here’s a few examples of preppy girls.

I know not the identity of this lovely-looking lass, but, she definitely rocks that outfit. ^-^

 

[bèlla]

I know not the identity of this lovely-looking lass, but, she definitely rocks that outfit. ^-^

That's Leighton Meester. She played Blair Waldorf on Gossip Girls. Yes, she rocks that look. The preps love her.

 

[bèlla]

@SigurdReginson

You handled that quite well. I value your feedback. You offer a refreshing perspective. Don't stop.

 

[SigurdReginson]

@SigurdReginson

You handled that quite well. I value your feedback. You offer a refreshing perspective. Don't stop.

Ahh, you're gonna make me blush. I appreciate you @bèlla, thank you!

You don't stop, either.

 

[bèlla]

Ahh, you're gonna make me blush. I appreciate you @bèlla, thank you!

You don't stop, either.

Oh really? *slides close and laughs* We're focusing on charm this month with my beauty coach. I may need a volunteer. *lol*

Thank you Sig. Keep being you. You're all good.

 

[SigurdReginson]

Oh really? *slides close and laughs* We're focusing on charm this month with my beauty coach. I may need a volunteer. *lol*

Thank you Sig. Keep being you. You're all good.

Oh jeez, hah! More charm is something I could honestly use some practice with, too. If you need a volunteer, I'd be glad to help out.

 

[bèlla]

Oh jeez, hah! More charm is something I could honestly use some practice with, too. If you need a volunteer, I'd be glad to help out.

No way! You probably ooze charm. You’re joshing me.

 

[bèlla]

Nice article from Boundless.

You Can’t Earn a Wife or Husband, So Stop Trying

Despite what others may imply, your singleness won't come to an end once you reach a certain level of spiritual maturity or contentment...

 

[DragonFox91]

I want to ooze charm!

@DragonFox91

Take up a water sport! And don’t forget the hair.

View attachment 295734

That watch & hot hair style makes it seem not boring. (although it helps he's really good looking, no homo) I don't really like watches tho. My wrist feels too small for them. What are some other accessories? I know watches are the big one Maybe I could just ask the watch people what kind would be good for my wrist?

Also, me & a friend would swim laps during college. People were always impressed. when I told them. I've been wanting to join a pool to pick it back up for a while. It'd just be something to do on my own time tho, to complement gym exercising.

I bookmarked the previous page for research later BTW.

 

[bèlla]

I want to ooze charm!

I think everyone can improve their communication skills and comfort in social settings. But your comment made me wonder if genes play a part in charm.

My parents are very outgoing and extroverted. More than their siblings. Both are social butterflies and very charming. We inherited the same. Three children following in their footsteps. Coincidence? I don’t know. My brother-in-law and nephew were quiet. Both had a child with a similar disposition. Maybe there’s some influence.

That watch & hot hair style makes it seem not boring. (although it helps he's really good looking, no homo) I don't really like watches tho. My wrist feels too small for them. What are some other accessories? I know watches are the big one

You can opt for a ring, bracelet, or pocket watch. You don’t have to wear a heavy watch. Get an Apple watch with a Hermes band. That’s the perfect look.

Also, me & a friend would swim laps during college. People were always impressed. when I told them. I've been wanting to join a pool to pick it back up for a while. It'd just be something to do on my own time tho, to complement gym exercising.

If you want to build your network opt for sports with lots of socialization. Don’t forget seasonal activities like skiing. And learn to grill. People love get togethers. In the fall you have tailgates and cookouts in warmer months.

 

[SigurdReginson]

No way! You probably ooze charm. You’re joshing me.

Well I don't know about oozing charm, but I've been told that I can be a fun person to be around. I've always enjoyed going out and trying new things... Kind of makes it difficult with covid going on, but I manage to find a way. It also helps when I can drag people along to share in the fun with; especially those who are more adventurous!

I've never heard of a beauty coach, though. What kind of things does she help coach with? I'm intrigued.

 

[DragonFox91]

I think everyone can improve their communication skills and comfort in social settings. But your comment made me wonder if genes play a part in charm.

Definitely!

My parents are very outgoing and extroverted. More than their siblings. Both are social butterflies and very charming. We inherited the same. Three children following in their footsteps. Coincidence? I don’t know. My brother-in-law and nephew were quiet. Both had a child with a similar disposition. Maybe there’s some influence.

Being quieter doesn't mean not charming

You can opt for a ring, bracelet, or pocket watch. You don’t have to wear a heavy watch. Get an Apple watch with a Hermes band. That’s the perfect look.

Yesssss, I want a pocket watch!!!
What kind of ring? I want a wedding ring some day!

If you want to build your network opt for sports with lots of socialization. Don’t forget seasonal activities like skiing. And learn to grill. People love get togethers. In the fall you have tailgates and cookouts in warmer months.

Grilling's easy. I do that. Definitely need a winter sport. I ice skate, if that counts. Not often enough tho, unfortunately. Yes, winter sports are definitely needed, especially if I want to stay in the mid-west. I hate 'what winter sports do you do' & I used to be like 'uhhhhhhh.' Dang, winter's like over at this point.

 

[bèlla]

This is what happens when you browse Amazon while half awake. I’ve been dragging my heels on the baking front. Maybe I need help.

I only eat breads made with natural yeast. That limits me to baking or a going to the bakery.

We eat baguettes and have challah or sourdough on occasion. I have a local source for flour made with ancient grains and picked some up at the farmers market. I made the decision to switch to ancient grains last year. Once we finish what’s here (brown rice, arborio rice, etc.) we’re done.

Here it is!