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I think I have a pretty good grasp of what men and women find attractive in each other evolutionary. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. but me not being attracted to her is pretty understandable.
So, your answer to the why...is what you were taught...
Okay.
No.. my attractions didn't change once I studied evolutionary psychology. I simply developed a deeper view of why I find some things attractive and others not.
Hmmmm, so there was consistency between your environment (including the media) and the evolutionary thought you encountered.
So, now that you acquired that confirmation, would you say that you are kind of locked in to it? Or, can you decide to swim up stream, so to speak, if you so chose?
*waves a hand dismissively while snoozing with chin rested in the other hand at the PC desk*
Nah. Busy slaying giant monsters and the undead right now. This knight already has his hands full.
what is on the inside
There are reasons why we find bodies attractive
HEY, HEY, YOU, YOU, I DON'T LIKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND...
I understand Evolutionary Theory to deal with the outer aspect of our beings, such as our brains and bodies.
What I was getting at more is the inner existence of our being such as personality.
Anyways, this is a very interesting discussion, thank you for it.
What is on the inside is what makes me hate her so much, not that I'm not physically attracted to her.
Sometimes we're attracted to the ones who aggravate us the most. That's cruel, I think, but still true. This co-worker is really on your mind. Are you sure you're not attracted to her?
Evolutionary psychology also deal with the inner self too.
What should I see about her on the inside? What is on the inside is what makes me hate her so much, not that I'm not physically attracted to her.
Lol.. I'm the guy who psychoanalyzed the concept of sadomasochism to death.. it sure ain't that.
There was one time she said we should date.. and I'm not joking.. vomit literally almost came out of my mouth.
Oh, okay, so you do know the "why" of what repels you about her.
So, my next question is, "What does this say about you?"
You don't have to answer that here...just something to chew on.
The NAA Covid test is the one that gets sent to a lab for a couple days, right?
But why why?
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