Right. It's just that I got the impression (although admittedly I wasn't paying 100% attention the entire time while this video played) this lady would still grit her teeth and do what she's got to do when the chips are truly down on the table, and she wouldn't just abandon a friend or husband to adversity. But I see your side, too, I think.
It's not enough for someone to say they're a believer. Listen to the things they say and watch what they do. If God's a focal point you'll hear about Him.
You have a bible reading thread which tells me you're in the word.
@DragonFox91 shares notes from sermons and Sunday school which means he's paying attention. Most people don't read the bible and fewer discuss the messages. They're off to the next thing.
If I wanted to marry a Kingdom man I'd look for someone with those qualities. He's responsible for my cultivation but that isn't possible without time in the word and with God. Otherwise he's drawing on worldly wisdom.
In like fashion, if you want a Kingdom woman familiarize yourself with the qualities they possess. How many times have you asked us to pray for you during a long work stint? Imagine her doing the same without discussion. Consider the challenges you've mentioned and the impact her daily intercession would have on you and the environment.
@DragonFox91 is laying the groundwork for familial study and devotions. A likeminded spouse would make meals and early mornings a wonderful time for instruction and support him through her attentiveness.
What does God say about the men and women He prefers? That's our guideline. The more we seek Him the clearer our direction becomes. You won't have to worry about finding someone or wonder when it will happen. The path you're on narrows as you go and you'll encounter others like yourself.
As long as you cling to the other you'll miss it. You value chivalry but God called David a man after His own heart. Kingdom men are gentlemen because the Father is. Whereas the other swears an oath but we're admonished against it. See what I mean?
It's the little foxes that spoil the vine. The little ideas that get us off course. You call yourself a knight but the Father says king. Why would you settle for less?
The man who reads the word, studies it and prays is a catch. You can't have a teachable spirit without it or lead the other well. Ask for a Kingdom woman and trust the process.