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[SarahsKnight]

@bèlla , found this at random. She sounds like your type of muse, or maybe the result of someone being under your tutelage for a while. ^-^
She seems similar to Darling Desi.

I think a commenter below said it well:
"Growing up isn't learning to be mature all the time, but learning when the right time to be mature comes."

 

[TheLastGeek]

Dealing with difficult things.

Big hug for you, my friend.

 

[TheLastGeek]

@bèlla , found this at random. She sounds like your type of muse, or maybe the result of someone being under your tutelage for a while. ^-^
She seems similar to Darling Desi.

I think a commenter below said it well:
"Growing up isn't learning to be mature all the time, but learning when the right time to be mature comes."

I love The Cottage Fairy! Been watching her for a long while. Also, Jonna Jinton, if anyone enjoys peaceful, artistic, natural creators.

 

[SarahsKnight]

I love The Cottage Fairy! Been watching her for a long while. Also, Jonna Jinton, if anyone enjoys peaceful, artistic, natural creators.

Oh, so you know her, too, Miss Geek? ^-^

 

[bèlla]

@bèlla , found this at random. She sounds like your type of muse, or maybe the result of someone being under your tutelage for a while. ^-^
She seems similar to Darling Desi.

I think a commenter below said it well:
"Growing up isn't learning to be mature all the time, but learning when the right time to be mature comes."

I'm familiar with her and used to follow both but no longer do so. I also read her book and it was difficult to get through but I finished. I can see why you mentioned her and appreciate the gesture. But neither embody the qualities I seek in women I mentor or advise. There's a noticeable measure of escapism in their content that was understandable during the pandemic in light of the circumstances and mood.

I've watched them for awhile and it's more than fancy or whimsy. Escape is a coping mechanism frequently employed by people struggling with challenges or an inability to deal with their circumstances. They create the world they lack in response.

There's nothing enduring about Neverland and when we understand what it represents and who Peter really was we grasp the reasoning behind Paul's words. When I was a child I thought as a child but when I became a man I put away childish things. That isn't a denial of wonder or innocence. It's the recognition of the necessity to accept ones state and mature. When we allow ourselves to remain on milk we deny the world the wisdom we acquire through our experiences.

That isn't the child the bible references nor does it support the idea of rescue perpetuated through entertainment. Woman was fashioned as a helper not a maiden who required a knight to save her. Given the gravity of world events and what's anticipated in the years to come I expect we'll see many doing the same. Turning within themselves for respite and that's unfortunate.

While I don't have a son I would never support a union with someone like that. Men are facing difficult trials and pressures and require a companion who's grounded and compassionate with the quiet strength and wisdom they need in difficult moments. I don't want someone who falls apart, builds a world in their head or lives in the clouds. I want him to have someone with the fortitude to stand beside him and weather what lies ahead.

When I read the bible I see great examples like Sarah, Esther, Ruth and Abigail. Those are the ones I esteem and emulate. I don't laud the rest.

 

[TheLastGeek]

Oh, so you know her, too, Miss Geek? ^-^

Jonna? Oh, yes, I love her content! Been watching her for years. She lives the life I wish I had.

 

[SarahsKnight]

While I don't have a son I would never support a union with someone like that. Men are facing difficult trials and pressures and require a companion who's grounded and compassionate with the quiet strength and wisdom they need in difficult moments. I don't want someone who falls apart, builds a world in their head or lives in the clouds. I want him to have someone with the fortitude to stand beside him and weather what lies ahead.

Right. It's just that I got the impression (although admittedly I wasn't paying 100% attention the entire time while this video played) this lady would still grit her teeth and do what she's got to do when the chips are truly down on the table, and she wouldn't just abandon a friend or husband to adversity. But I see your side, too, I think.

 

[bèlla]

Right. It's just that I got the impression (although admittedly I wasn't paying 100% attention the entire time while this video played) this lady would still grit her teeth and do what she's got to do when the chips are truly down on the table, and she wouldn't just abandon a friend or husband to adversity. But I see your side, too, I think.

It's not enough for someone to say they're a believer. Listen to the things they say and watch what they do. If God's a focal point you'll hear about Him.

You have a bible reading thread which tells me you're in the word. @DragonFox91 shares notes from sermons and Sunday school which means he's paying attention. Most people don't read the bible and fewer discuss the messages. They're off to the next thing.

If I wanted to marry a Kingdom man I'd look for someone with those qualities. He's responsible for my cultivation but that isn't possible without time in the word and with God. Otherwise he's drawing on worldly wisdom.

In like fashion, if you want a Kingdom woman familiarize yourself with the qualities they possess. How many times have you asked us to pray for you during a long work stint? Imagine her doing the same without discussion. Consider the challenges you've mentioned and the impact her daily intercession would have on you and the environment.

@DragonFox91 is laying the groundwork for familial study and devotions. A likeminded spouse would make meals and early mornings a wonderful time for instruction and support him through her attentiveness.

What does God say about the men and women He prefers? That's our guideline. The more we seek Him the clearer our direction becomes. You won't have to worry about finding someone or wonder when it will happen. The path you're on narrows as you go and you'll encounter others like yourself.

As long as you cling to the other you'll miss it. You value chivalry but God called David a man after His own heart. Kingdom men are gentlemen because the Father is. Whereas the other swears an oath but we're admonished against it. See what I mean?

It's the little foxes that spoil the vine. The little ideas that get us off course. You call yourself a knight but the Father says king. Why would you settle for less?

The man who reads the word, studies it and prays is a catch. You can't have a teachable spirit without it or lead the other well. Ask for a Kingdom woman and trust the process.

 

[GodDoesListen55]

I am craving sushi so bad right now.

 

[RileyG]

I am craving sushi so bad right now.

Mmmmmm, I love California rolls even though some people don't consider that "real sushi." lol

 

[RileyG]

hi Bella! You've been in my prayers! God bless you

 

[returntosender]

I love Betta fish! I had both male and female (not in the same tank) growing up

I love Betta's also. They're so beautiful and peaceful. You might want to explain separate tanks. I know why but not everyone does.

 

[RileyG]

I love Betta's also. They're so beautiful and peaceful. You might want to explain separate tanks. I know why but not everyone does.

We haven't had pet fish in over 3 years now. As a matter of fact, we haven't had ANY pets in over 3 years now.

 

[returntosender]

RIP Bob Barker.

Agree

 

[RileyG]

RIP Bob Barker.

may his soul dwell with the blessed + !

 

[DragonFox91]

I have a betta (& danios)! I have a girl. She is happy! I've had her more than a year at this point!
She was pink, then got black, now is pink again. She changes colors!
I like girls, b/c I think most people like boys b/c of their fancy fins, so I feel sorry for the girls. What do you know, the girl I picked changes colors!
Post pictures! Show them off! They want to be seen!

@DragonFox91 is laying the groundwork for familial study and devotions.

I am? Yes, I suppose I am. I would love to work thru devotionals and/or study questions w/ a wife. If Christ isn’t the foundation, the relationship won’t work, nor will our joint relationship work w/our other relationships!

 

[bèlla]

I am? Yes, I suppose I am. I would love to work thru devotionals and/or study questions w/ a wife. If Christ isn’t the foundation, the relationship won’t work, nor will our joint relationship work w/our other relationships!

Absolutely. You're embodying the qualities of a priest and that's an important part of marriage. With continued study and discipline you may find yourself leading others, teaching or serving as an elder. It wouldn't surprise me if you ministered to young men at a later date and provided the instruction and support they lacked for marital preparation. Sometimes our challenges are assignments in disguise.

You're doing well.

 

[Plenipotent]

I've got a 65-gallon tank that's been sitting empty for ages. Honestly, I held onto it with the hope of getting another pet for it someday, but that hasn't happened. I'd really like to get a hamster, but my work keeps me away from home for about 2 and a half days, which makes it a bit tough to give them the attention they need consistently. I've now been toying with the idea of getting a betta fish instead because of the topic here. They're diets and needs seem easier on the surface level, so it might work out better. But I'd really like a hamster... Or maybe I should just sell the tank altogether? Hmm, decisions decisions...

 

[bèlla]

hi Bella! You've been in my prayers! God bless you

Thank you Riley! I hope you're well and in good health. I noticed you were looking for a job. I would broach it in this manner.

1. Confess your fear, disbelief and anxiety.
2. Acknowledge your faith and trust in God and ask Him to help you with your weaknesses.
3. Admit your ignorance and ask Him to increase your wisdom and discernment.
4. Confess in Christ's name your desire to honor Him and bring Him glory. Ask for your assignment and the work that will prepare you for its completion.
5. Declare in Christ's name that you work for God from now on.
6. Thank Him afterwards.

 

[RileyG]

Thank you Riley! I hope you're well and in good health. I noticed you were looking for a job. I would broach it in this manner.

1. Confess your fear, disbelief and anxiety.
2. Acknowledge your faith and trust in God and ask Him to help you with your weaknesses.
3. Admit your ignorance and ask Him to increase your wisdom and discernment.
4. Confess in Christ's name your desire to honor Him and bring Him glory. Ask for your assignment and the work that will prepare you for its completion.
5. Declare in Christ's name that you work for God from now on.
6. Thank Him afterwards.

Thank you for the recommendation! I will definitely be doing that

God bless