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Ordered 5 varieties of sake or about 3L worth. No way am I paying $7 for 300ml of it when I can get several online, share some with a neighbor and sort of stave off my missing of Japan & Asia in general... With shipping it's about the same cost but I got to pick from a lot more... They sold sake all over the place in Hawai'i, it was cheap and imported from Japan. I don't know what or why but it's like one of those "I don't care of the cost... I want it!" scenarios.
 
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Ordered 5 varieties of sake or about 3L worth. No way am I paying $7 for 300ml of it when I can get several online, share some with a neighbor and sort of stave off my missing of Japan & Asia in general... With shipping it's about the same cost but I got to pick from a lot more... They sold sake all over the place in Hawai'i, it was cheap and imported from Japan. I don't know what or why but it's like one of those "I don't care of the cost... I want it!" scenarios.
I've always wanted to see what that tasted like lol
 
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Men question- my bf told me that he had gotten my ring size one day when I fell asleep around him and that I was a size 6.

I checked myself and I am in fact a 6/6.5.

I flipped out a little so I googled it and found 6 is the most common ring size for women.

Based on also being a male, do you think
1) he actually had taken my size
2) he was making a guess in hopes of figuring out my size
3) he's trolling me
4) other
 
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He actually took your size! As a guy, this wouldn't be something I joked/trolled about! #2 is also possible with #1, where he wanted to confirm your size. If I'm right, then THIS IS SO EXCITING AND YOU BETTER KEEP ME IN THE LOOP ^_^ :p
 
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I've always wanted to see what that tasted like lol
It is like wine for how strong it is, however, it's from rice and therefore very "clean" tasting. Some might say it's terrible, however, I got used to it and like a little time to time. My tolerance is very poor and I don't like the fuzzy feeling very much so it'll last me forever.

Men question- my bf told me that he had gotten my ring size one day when I fell asleep around him and that I was a size 6.

I checked myself and I am in fact a 6/6.5.

I flipped out a little so I googled it and found 6 is the most common ring size for women.

Based on also being a male, do you think
1) he actually had taken my size
2) he was making a guess in hopes of figuring out my size
3) he's trolling me
4) other
If you are telling your GF about the ring size that sounds weird unless he proposed or so forth.... Honestly I don't know why he'd be BSing you on that one as it can't be that hard to measure while you're asleep but I find it weird he'd reveal that fact to you and not just give you the darn ring.
 
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It is like wine for how strong it is, however, it's from rice and therefore very "clean" tasting. Some might say it's terrible, however, I got used to it and like a little time to time. My tolerance is very poor and I don't like the fuzzy feeling very much so it'll last me forever.


If you are telling your GF about the ring size that sounds weird unless he proposed or so forth.... Honestly I don't know why he'd be BSing you on that one as it can't be that hard to measure while you're asleep but I find it weird he'd reveal that fact to you and not just give you the darn ring.
It really was odd. We were having one of those chats about future stuff and I made a comment about how we didn't have to worry about it for a long while and he said I'm not so sure about that. Could be anytime now. I scoffed and said he didn't even know my ring size and he goes "sure I do, it's a 6. I took it when you fell asleep the other day." He went on to tell me that when we visited his parents a few months back his dad gave him a ring size thing and he had used it.

Definitely seemed trollish but very strange it was the right size. Plus I don't know why you'd troll about that. I'm very confused
 
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It really was odd. We were having one of those chats about future stuff and I made a comment about how we didn't have to worry about it for a long while and he said I'm not so sure about that. Could be anytime now. I scoffed and said he didn't even know my ring size and he goes "sure I do, it's a 6. I took it when you fell asleep the other day." He went on to tell me that when we visited his parents a few months back his dad gave him a ring size thing and he had used it.

Definitely seemed trollish but very strange it was the right size. Plus I don't know why you'd troll about that. I'm very confused
I don't know why he'd troll you as if you're in love it's always honest and kindness-never probing to see where it's at without intent.
f I were him I'd see if you're amicable to engagement and if so--sneak your ring size, spend a lot of time finding a perfect ring, buy it and propose to you.
Not mention the ring size and not go through with it as it sounds silly to be honest.
 
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One way to find out is to go up to him and say, "I measured today and my ring size is a 4, not a 6." and see if he gets angry lol.
Would have been helpful but unfortunately I looked it up in his presence.

Honestly, as far as I know, we aren't ready for marriage. There is one big thing that has to happen before then, and unless he just hasn't told me, it hasn't happened yet. Though he has made hints about that too.

Men are so mysterious and vexing.
 
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Would have been helpful but unfortunately I looked it up in his presence.

Honestly, as far as I know, we aren't ready for marriage. There is one big thing that has to happen before then, and unless he just hasn't told me, it hasn't happened yet. Though he has made hints about that too.

Men are so mysterious and vexing.
HA! Men are the mysterious and vexing ones? We're the easy, straight forward, from the hip people. It's the ladies who wonder if there's a hidden meaning behind it :D :p
 
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HA! Men are the mysterious and vexing ones? We're the easy, straight forward, from the hip people. It's the ladies who wonder if there's a hidden meaning behind it :D :p
Not just the ladies guess about hidden meanings... I seem to recall in recent memory a certain male getting pretty excited while guessing the motives behind the actions of another male
 
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Not just the ladies guess about hidden meanings... I seem to recall in recent memory a certain male getting pretty excited while guessing the motives behind the actions of another male
Ahem. touche. :holy:
 
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1) he actually had taken my size

Depends, but probably this if you're at the stage where marriage is a consideration even if it hasn't been spoken about much in the past.

I mean, it's a pretty high-risk way of doing it when presumably he could have just asked your Mother or one of your female friends :D
 
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Looking over the results of 5 and a half years of rigorous college education, every class I ventured upon and every GPA gained from them. Ordered this transcript from the school and needing to pass it on to the immigration attorneys I hired, and I haven't even thought about looking at my college transcript in several years. Ah, memories of still being a student rather than ... ugh ... a working adult.
 
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I have a date tonight

EEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.....

am so nervous, this is the most nervous i've been on any date i've had!!!

He ticks all my boxes (Yes, i have a list lol)

its really important and scary.............

I need to calm down lol
 
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I have a date tonight

EEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.....

am so nervous, this is the most nervous i've been on any date i've had!!!

He ticks all my boxes (Yes, i have a list lol)

its really important and scary.............

I need to calm down lol
Good luck! I'll be praying and rootin for ya!
 
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OMM: Reevaluating some of my goals. The fitness ones are staying put but the others may need to be tweaked a little to get in new things I want to try or accomplish.
 
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I have a date tonight

EEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.....

am so nervous, this is the most nervous i've been on any date i've had!!!

He ticks all my boxes (Yes, i have a list lol)

its really important and scary.............

I need to calm down lol

Is that so? Well then, happy for you, Fire Girl. :)
 
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