Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.
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My house mate may be taking a job in Leeds.
Which means she'll sell the flat.
Which means I'll need to find somewhere very soon if I want to avoid being homeless.
I'm being really selfish, she was unhappy with her job here, she's unhappy in London. But this is such a lovely flat. Maybe she'll let me rent it from her... her mortgage repayments are much, much less than what I pay for my share and I'm sure I can find a replacement for her. But then she'd have to change the terms of her mortgage, the rates may go up, and I'll be paddling up the creek with my toes.
Gosh I hate change.
I'm sorry to hear that. I pray everything works out and you can find a new flat.My house mate may be taking a job in Leeds.
Which means she'll sell the flat.
Which means I'll need to find somewhere very soon if I want to avoid being homeless.
I'm being really selfish, she was unhappy with her job here, she's unhappy in London. But this is such a lovely flat. Maybe she'll let me rent it from her... her mortgage repayments are much, much less than what I pay for my share and I'm sure I can find a replacement for her. But then she'd have to change the terms of her mortgage, the rates may go up, and I'll be paddling up the creek with my toes.
Gosh I hate change.
My house mate may be taking a job in Leeds.
Which means she'll sell the flat.
Which means I'll need to find somewhere very soon if I want to avoid being homeless.
I'm being really selfish, she was unhappy with her job here, she's unhappy in London. But this is such a lovely flat. Maybe she'll let me rent it from her... her mortgage repayments are much, much less than what I pay for my share and I'm sure I can find a replacement for her. But then she'd have to change the terms of her mortgage, the rates may go up, and I'll be paddling up the creek with my toes.
Gosh I hate change.