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What's on your mind?

Discussion in 'Singles (Only*)' started by High Fidelity, May 24, 2015.

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  1. bint3

    bint3 New Member

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    How do I send private messages?
     
  2. CodyFaith

    CodyFaith Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Click the little envelope icon on the top toolbar and click "Start a new conversation" in the menu that drops down when you click it. It'll bring you to a page where you'll have to write out the person's username and your message to them.
     
  3. bint3

    bint3 New Member

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    Thank you so much! I guess it hadn't registered that I had 20 posts and 5 positive interactions yet. Now, I'm free to start conversations. :)
     
  4. sunshineforJesus

    sunshineforJesus is so in love with God Supporter

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    had a great day hanging out with my friend megan.
     
  5. MrMoe

    MrMoe Part-Time Breatharian

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    That's what you get for refusing the offer I said you couldn't refuse.
     
  6. Paulie079

    Paulie079 Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Top o' the morning, sinners.
     
  7. CodyFaith

    CodyFaith Well-Known Member Supporter

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    A believer is no longer defined by their sins, but instead is holy, washed by the blood of Christ.

    Edit- Oh just found out this is Paulie, nvm you already know all this so yo aha.
     
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  8. Multifavs

    Multifavs Knightess Supporter

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    Thank you - I know I have had my own flaws as of late, though. Will continue praying! :pray:

    How are you doing now, by the way?


    Will also pray for you, that does not sound fun. I certainly hope that all goes well. :crossrc:

    And welcome, @bint3! I hope you enjoy being here. :wave:
     
  9. Saucy

    Saucy Fear is faith in the enemy. Supporter

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    Ugh I hate when this happens.

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  10. High Fidelity

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    It's Friiiiiiidayyyy.
     
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  11. alsughasoughaiuyfygh

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  12. Saucy

    Saucy Fear is faith in the enemy. Supporter

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  13. SarahsKnight

    SarahsKnight Jesus Christ is this Knight's truth. Supporter

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    Better on the sickness. It appears to have been a bacterial infection, but now I am taking medication to resolve that. :)

    Unfortunately, not as well on the second problem. This friend no longer seems angry with me, however, I will have to be content with a permanently downgraded relationship with that person. Due to having lost some trust, even if I am forgiven. But still, that is better than before. And sometimes despite forgiveness one must simply have to live with the consequences of their actions.
     
  14. MehGuy

    MehGuy We are highly neotenous apes.. Supporter

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    It is a shame being a short man. Since I will never not have tension with women. Knowing biologically that most of them view me as dirt and beneath them, the equality reality of how I must conduct myself will always have to keep me at odds with them.

    I see no way out, other than becoming a self defacing male feminist. Something my psychology will never allow me to do. Sadly my anger only grows the more successful I am with attracting women. For my depression is lifted, and more and more of my empathy is allowed to be expressed. Doesn't quite fit the narrative of the angry lonely man so many want to believe. A defeated man tends to feel less energy, including the energy to hate. When he starts to be accepted by women as biologically worthy for procreation he has more energy to feel hatred for the slights he was given in the past.
     
  15. alsughasoughaiuyfygh

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    I had a friend who is the same height as you and he gets more women than Hugh Hefner. His height didn't win them over. His good looks that he constantly keeps up, his charismatic personality, and hard work in bodybuilding, music, and martial arts did. What's more is that he's Filipino and in my town are stereotyped as being a bunch of fast food workers who know little English so there was that holding him back. It didn't and he's still not perfect but he managed to succeed with women.

    Perhaps you could try to make a few changes? Maybe try to find the positive in things and not be so angry and bitter all the time?
     
  16. alsughasoughaiuyfygh

    alsughasoughaiuyfygh Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Wait a minute... You're not the 14 year old blonde girl I met on MySpace...

    Oh crap.
     
  17. Strider1002

    Strider1002 For when I am weak, then I am strong.

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    Who cares what women think of you, Meh? :tonguewink:
     
  18. MehGuy

    MehGuy We are highly neotenous apes.. Supporter

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    Possible that short men go through life unscathed. If they for whatever reason are always successful with women from their teenage years on up.

    As for me, I think I do better than the average 5 foot 7 inch man.

    Like I said in my post though.. the more successful I am with women, the angrier I get for how many more of them treat me for my height. It doesn't cool me down in the slightest, just makes things worse.

    Many short men are too depressed to express much anger. Depression limits inhibits things like empathy. There's good evolutionary reasons for that. The anger seen by me from the last few years is nothing compared to the anger I've experienced when I was less depressed.
     
  19. MehGuy

    MehGuy We are highly neotenous apes.. Supporter

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    Unless one is asexual/homosexual or something, I don't see how they wouldn't care. We're here to procreate, what the opposite sex thinks of us is extremely important when it comes to psychological health.
     
  20. Multifavs

    Multifavs Knightess Supporter

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    I just finished coloring some new creatures that will appear in some of my upcoming stories. Now they just need names and descriptions...not easy when you've made as many characters as I have. ^_^

    Very happy to hear you're feeling better. :)

    I'm so sorry about your friendship, though. :( I still pray that it can work out, and I know we are here to support you when you need it. :hug:
     
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