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Doesn't he want to see them or do you live too far away?I really try not too, and try and be Christian like as much as possible, but I HATE AND I MEAN HATE MY EX....... I've been trying to contact him FOR a week, he was suppose to be coming up and seeing the boys, now my 6 year old is so upset he;s been wetting himself during the night, which he has never done before. He also suppose to be giving me money since he hasn't done in months and months...... I need to pray harder....
Even if he lives far away, you should never be too far away to NOT see them at all around the time scheduled..things come up thats understandable, but, if you cant make it say on Thursday, what stops Friday? Saturday? Sunday? etc...
Of course not having any its easy to say that, but, even if you cant make it as planed. Even the busiest of schedules have an opening some time around the planned time to see them. If not, IMO a man should rethink his priorities.
Id rather throw away an awesome career and see my kids grow up than to spend it chasing the almighty dollar and miss it (if I couldnt have both). Money and a child's youth both disappear far too quickly. IMO the less valuable of the two is the money.
But why did you move to Scotland? Can't you just live nearby? Even if he is irresponsible can't he see them more often with his parents or something? My ex first got the kids but I could see them twice a week for a few hours with my parents. Better than nothing. He didn't get a cent from me when he took my kids to be honest.yes in Scotland he is suppose to pay my, even if you get the government to chase him, I would need to pay them to do it and he's self employed which means he could hide money and I would end up wasting money for nothing....
Ok he lives in England which is 45 mins on the plane, you can get a plane ticket if you do it in advance for £40 return...... also I allow him to have my house with the boys so he doesn't have to pay outlays like hotel room etc
What happened was he was suppose to come in april but said he had this big job coming up, so I said that was ok and I was coming down at the end of april anyway with the boys to see him (Which I paid for) he then said he was coming up for Sons birthday, again he said about work, he then told the boys he was coming up at the end of may as his friend was traveling up for work and he was getting a lift with him, then that fell through, he then told them 2 weeks which would be this week.... I have heard nothing from him, his phone is turned off....
The last chat we had was when he asked me if I was moving back and I told him no under no terms he then asked for the two younger boys and again I told him no he couldn't have them living there for god as he isn't responsible enough to look after kids full time..... he then texted me asking me what the boys needed and I have heard nothing since.... I've texted his brother as his mum and dad are on holiday.
This is exhausting to be truth, it seems that I am making the effort as it's very important for kids to have a father....
But why did you move to Schotland? Can't you just live nearby? Even if he is irresponsible can't he see them more often with his parents or something? My ex first got the kids but I could see them twice a week for a few hours with my parents. Better than nothing. He didn't get a cent from me when he took my kids to be honest.
Where do you live? England?
Yeah, all I have to do is good to bed by at least 11.
I have Thursday off, and I'd like to spend my night fully awake and not sleepy, lol.
They are addictive. So many people, posting so many things, there's so much to digest.It's the alerts you get here. They keep me up.
yes in Scotland he is suppose to pay my, even if you get the government to chase him, I would need to pay them to do it and he's self employed which means he could hide money and I would end up wasting money for nothing....
Ok he lives in England which is 45 mins on the plane, you can get a plane ticket if you do it in advance for £40 return...... also I allow him to have my house with the boys so he doesn't have to pay outlays like hotel room etc
What happened was he was suppose to come in april but said he had this big job coming up, so I said that was ok and I was coming down at the end of april anyway with the boys to see him (Which I paid for) he then said he was coming up for Sons birthday, again he said about work, he then told the boys he was coming up at the end of may as his friend was traveling up for work and he was getting a lift with him, then that fell through, he then told them 2 weeks which would be this week.... I have heard nothing from him, his phone is turned off....
The last chat we had was when he asked me if I was moving back and I told him no under no terms he then asked for the two younger boys and again I told him no he couldn't have them living there for god as he isn't responsible enough to look after kids full time..... he then texted me asking me what the boys needed and I have heard nothing since.... I've texted his brother as his mum and dad are on holiday.
This is exhausting to be truth, it seems that I am making the effort as it's very important for kids to have a father....
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