What's a good response to the equating of catering same sex weddings with Jim Crow laws?

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you might want to do a little research. the National Organization for Marriage's financial issues come from loosing multiple court cases when they tried to refuse to release their donor lists.

It was almost as if those donating money to promote hate were ashamed of their donations.
 
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No, no, no.

You ARE what you do. You decide, unless someone has a gun to your head.
racists and bigots have grouped minorities together with criminals and drug abusers and sex offenders for generations. it is a sick and shameful practice to promote fear and hate
 
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why? ( i mean aside from the fact you don't like what it says.)
Because it fails to demonstrate that same-sex "marriage" is in any way linked to justice.


and you are wrong here.

for generations gays have only been able to do these things by hiding.
I am not wrong, because it is not equivalent to Jim Crow. It is not equivalent because you cannot hide your skin color. Gays had the option of hiding, blacks did not. Hence you can fill in the blank for "____ while black" and the risk to personal safety while doing whatever that is increases. In the days of Jim Crow when racism and racial violence were more openly tolerated, and when this was combined with organized squelching of educational and economic opportunity which compounded the risk further, then yes it was a lot worse for blacks.

And in many, if not most, cases that changed dramatically when they came out or were discovered.
At least they had a chance to get in the door. Skin color cannot be easily hidden, so during the Jim Crow years, a lot of blacks couldn't even get that. Not to minimize the obvious trauma of getting fired for your orientation after being there a couple of years before someone's "gaydar" finally went off, but that's a couple of years worth of money and experience that a lot of black people weren't able to get from the outset.
 
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I am quite satisfied with the Kennedy SCOTUS decision that finds the rhetoric of comparing genuine Christian belief with the more scurrilous behavior known to mankind to be reason to dismiss any legal actions against Christians for simply practicing their faith.
We do not need to respond to these kinds of attacks, other than to point to the SCOTUS decision that defines the haters as those who compare genuine Christian belief to racism.
 
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Because it fails to demonstrate that same-sex "marriage" is in any way linked to justice.
it's marriage not "marriage"




Some blacks could hide, it was called passing.

Following your argument through to the end - Jews in Nazi occupied Europe had the option of hiding, many did hide. Because Jews could hide are you saying that made them safe?

those aside your argument fails for a more obvious reason. Blacks of the segregation era did not have to hide. They had safe places within black communities and with families. Blacks weren't in danger of their families turning against them. Homosexuals did not have this safe zone option, hiding began with hiding from your own family and spilled over into all aspects of life. You had to hide at work and hide in your neighborhood your social life. and if your cover was blown in one area it was blown in all[/QUOTE]
 
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To the biblical adherent believer - and to Jesus, who defined marriage Himself as "when a man leaves his father and mother and clings unto his wife and the two shall be one flesh" - it is decidedly not and cannot be marriage. It should have been designated something else.

Jews were rounded up, placed in ghettos, taken to concentration camps, and gassed. No one is doing this or has ever done this to people who have sex with the same gender. No one even knows unless they make a big deal about it. Stupid and inapplicable comparison.

You are still going on as if it is an innate (wrong) and immediately identifiable thing like skin color, and sexual behavior is simply not.

Still waiting on all those sources from which you lifted photos and texts in earlier responses. Silence. Don't plagiarize. Name your sources.
 
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calling a horse a duck won't give it feathers

try reading before you make foolish proclamations.
the point was about hiding and many Jews hid

and I'm still waiting for evidence that sexual orientation is somehow a choice. (its going to be a long wait i know)
 
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No one is doing this or has ever done this to people who have sex with the same gender.

The Bible orders that homosexuals be put to death. In some societies like medieval Europe homosexuals were routinely burned at the stake. The bundles of sticks that were placed around the feet of the victim were called "faggots" hence the derogatory term for them today. They are not routinely murdered any more but there are still isolated instances like that of Matthew Shepard https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Shepard. Some Christian churches in Africa have successfully advocated draconian laws against homosexuals. While societal norms are slowly changing, homosexuals still face a very great deal of both covert and overt persecution. We do well to remember that they are people just like you and I who do not deserve the hatred and persecution that they still face --- now, here.
 
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No argument there. I did not advocate harsh treatment nor do I think it should have ever happened, of course. It is still wrong, but there are right and wrong ways to handle things...again, as Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians.
 
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it's marriage not "marriage"
Wrong. Marriage is God-ordained and defined as one man, one woman, for life (Matt 19:4-9).

Some blacks could hide, it was called passing.
Not the majority, unlike with gays.

Following your argument through to the end - Jews in Nazi occupied Europe had the option of hiding, many did hide. Because Jews could hide are you saying that made them safe?[
You misunderstand my argument. My argument is that blacks under Jim Crow were worse off than gays were 20 years ago, and therefore that refusing to cater to a gay commitment ceremony is not equivalent to Jim Crow.

Blacks weren't even safe in their own homes and neighborhoods at times. Not when the KKK and lynch mobs came to their doors.
 
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Wrong. Marriage is God-ordained and defined as one man, one woman, for life (Matt 19:4-9). (snip)
Well...only as long as you don't use the Bible to support that, because that's not what's in it. In fact there's about 7+ types of marriage in there.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/unreasonablefaith/2009/04/the-varieties-of-biblical-marriage/

The Law also provided for divorce, so "until death" wasn't the only choice either
I know "One man. one woman, for life" sounds nice but it's not actually what the Bible teaches.

tulc(just thought that should be pointed out)
 
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Gays can't always hide. "Gaydar" probably has some basis in truth (a research psychologist specializing in sexual orientation and gender identity named Ray Blanchard actually demonstrated it clinically) and people just know you are gay, for whatever reason. Or they might even suspect it, whether or not you are actually gay, sometimes the perception was enough to lead to homophobic responses.
 
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Wrong. Marriage is God-ordained and defined as one man, one woman, for life (Matt 19:4-9).
that is one of the eight biblical definitions.

Not the majority, unlike with gays.
Of course the African American's who could pass didn't have risks to their personal safety...right?


You misunderstand my argument. My argument is that blacks under Jim Crow were worse off than gays were 20 years ago, and therefore that refusing to cater to a gay commitment ceremony is not equivalent to Jim Crow.
20 years? try the 1950's and the height of oppression.

Blacks weren't even safe in their own homes and neighborhoods at times. Not when the KKK and lynch mobs came to their doors.
Neither were homosexuals always safe in their own homes
 
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