What to do when no longer attracted to wife?

[CodySmith]

Different concept.

Viagra is a pill - but from what I understand isn't 100% effective for a variety of reasons/circumstances.

This other stuff from what I have read absolutely works because it takes psychology completely out of the picture. But it's an injection.

Nice... I may have to look into it... Even Viagra doesnt work unless I am at least a little in the mood. Are these injections something I have to give myself beforehand or....

 

[mkgal1]

Cody....how are the two of you relationally (other than sexually, I mean)? I'm just wondering if the two of you need to vent some emotions (maybe with a counselor present?) in order to heal. In reading through these posts again.....it just seems there may be a wall between the two of you (and that can affect how you subconsciously view her physically). Is your wife accepting of you having sex with her ONLY for her benefit?

 

[DZoolander]

Nice... I may have to look into it... Even Viagra doesnt work unless I am at least a little in the mood. Are these injections something I have to give myself beforehand or....

Thats what I was getting at when I said that Viagra isn't 100% guaranteed. You still have to be in the mood, from what I understand.

Yeah, my understanding is this is an injection you do beforehand, and it forces it to happen.

 

[CodySmith]

Cody....how are the two of you relationally (other than sexually, I mean)? I'm just wondering if the two of you need to vent some emotions (maybe with a counselor present?) in order to heal. In reading through these posts again.....it just seems there may be a wall between the two of you (and that can affect how you subconsciously view her physically). Is your wife accepting of you having sex with her ONLY for her benefit?

Other than sexually, we are pretty comfortable with one another.