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Let me first say I'm not making this to argue, be holier than thou, or do any of the stupid and mean things I'm about to describe having to put up with. That is not my intention and Lord Have Mercy no one here falls into that particular trap with this topic. In the Name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost. Amen.
I come from a very denominationally mixed family but the vast majority are Protestant, my aunt, uncle, and cousin are the only Roman Catholics and myself am the only Orthodox person in the clan.
In the several years since my conversion, this has led to a lot of misunderstanding, hard feelings, confusion, and general lack of friendliness that...did not need to happen... most of it I was on the receiving end of, though I confess I may not have always handled it in a way that was altogether Christ like. Here is some of the stuff I've had to hear/watch.
Be told I'm going to Hell
Be told that I have betrayed the family
Be told I have disgraced the family
Be called a harlot, Idol worshipper, heathen, several disgusting expletives one doesn't normally hear in civilized conversation
Watch my Aunt and Uncle give my grandmother a misinformed and biased article about exactly how I am "lost" and how to witness to me to "bring me back into the arms of Christ"
Be accused of not having a relationship with Jesus
Be accused of witchcraft
Be told that I must be possessed and require an exorcism
This list could go on a lot further but I think you get a general idea... These are my relatives, the ones I talk to and that my parents and Grandmother talk to, some of this was actually my own mother. Just... it really hurts, and as much as I really, really don't want to stoop to their level, avoiding it is a lot easier said than done at family functions when I'm surrounded by these people for upwards of three to five hours at a time. What would you do?
I come from a very denominationally mixed family but the vast majority are Protestant, my aunt, uncle, and cousin are the only Roman Catholics and myself am the only Orthodox person in the clan.
In the several years since my conversion, this has led to a lot of misunderstanding, hard feelings, confusion, and general lack of friendliness that...did not need to happen... most of it I was on the receiving end of, though I confess I may not have always handled it in a way that was altogether Christ like. Here is some of the stuff I've had to hear/watch.
Be told I'm going to Hell
Be told that I have betrayed the family
Be told I have disgraced the family
Be called a harlot, Idol worshipper, heathen, several disgusting expletives one doesn't normally hear in civilized conversation
Watch my Aunt and Uncle give my grandmother a misinformed and biased article about exactly how I am "lost" and how to witness to me to "bring me back into the arms of Christ"
Be accused of not having a relationship with Jesus
Be accused of witchcraft
Be told that I must be possessed and require an exorcism
This list could go on a lot further but I think you get a general idea... These are my relatives, the ones I talk to and that my parents and Grandmother talk to, some of this was actually my own mother. Just... it really hurts, and as much as I really, really don't want to stoop to their level, avoiding it is a lot easier said than done at family functions when I'm surrounded by these people for upwards of three to five hours at a time. What would you do?