My mom got married when I was young to my step father, for the first few years he seemed to be a cool guy. So when I turned ten I decided to play city league football at first my mom and step father where excited. What I didn't know that it that I know now that it would be the biggest mistake that I ever made. When I entered 7th grade and sighned up for football he turned into the biggest Jerk all the way to my senior year in high school. Through the years I have called this man my father when he verbaly abused, me and my mother by dragging my reputation through the mudd with my mothers. I when him and his friends where outside he called me out to show me infront of his friends like a prize thorough bread. Instead of praising me he told how sorry and weak I was and that I was soft. As I stood their I wanted to cry but I didn't so I went back inside the house, went into my room angry and fustrated. As I sat in my room he came in with this big smile like nothing happend and left. I'm now 19 years old and going to graduate high school, when I called my bilogical father in California and told him that I am going to graduate from high school. All hell broke loose when I got out of school my mom told me that my step father was in one of his moods again. She told me he had been talking smack about me (I can't get into much deatail) that I should stay away and do my chores ect. My mother have been married to this guy for fourteen years and shared the same fate like me, she help raise his ungratefull kids who got my mother in trouble. I never why she got married to this guy until now she wanted me to have a father figure in my life, she not a push over she can stand her own ground believe me she can. Over the years I tried to prove to him that I wasn't weak, soft, or sorry even when he did't come to none of my games. He does not deserve to be called my dad and I will not call him my dad or father, how can I keep forgiving a man who is selfish and a hypocrite. Who never shown me compasion, or ecourage or let me cry on his shoulder and huged me and told me everything will be ok. It takes a real man to be a father not a jerk, I don't hate him but pitty him.