I feel like I'm trying to buy people off. When it's me it's like, don't buy me anything, just spend time with me. It's cheaper.
But it is more than cheaper...it means more to you because that is your love language. For someone else, this might feel like they didn't even give you a gift because they measure love in tangible items or by service. This is why it is important to "listen" to other people and learn to love them in their own language. It is easy to love in our own language...but it means so much more to love someone in their language.
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