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What is Wrong with going to Church?

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JesseBassett said:
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My church is a non-profit. Two years ago, two churches merged into one church. Would this make it a corporate church?

If it is classified as a non-profit (501.c3) corporation, then it is incorporated with the state. In other words, it is a state entity, functioning under federal government guildlines and limitations.

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One thing I have noticed about folks like us is that when one desires a more meaningful depth, otherwise known as true fellowship, it simply cannot be experienced within the vast majority of organized religion. I guess we could say that organized religion is a place to rest in safety and security from the threats of true, deep, intimate, transparent fellowship.

Most are content with the idea of corporate worship being the purpose for the gathering of believers. That is sad, but just the way it is. This is similar to pitting God's word against itself by saying that, for example, it is ok to tithe faithfully, even when it causes your family to have to live without some necessitites. This flies in the face of Paul's declaration that one is worse than an infidel when he fails to see to the needs of his own, even those of his own house.

Corporate worship is a similar weapon used by religionists to bludgeon into silence those who desire that the gathering be geared more toward the TRUE, biblical purpose for the gathering of believers.

I really agree with this statement. I think that the real challenge came when I was no longer surrounded by a church system. That forced me to see how little I had learned about the true Christian life. It has much more to do with learning and discipline than with fellowshipping, though that is like the icing on the cake, I think. And worship is the cherry on top. Pretty and flashy but not the point.

Many think that we come together to worship, that worship is primary, but I think that it is not even secondary, it is not the most important part in the life of the believer. We will have time enough for that when we get to heaven. We come together to support each other, to encourage and teach each other, to learn from each other. And with the teaching and strength we gain from that, we go tell others the gospel, teaching those that believe. That is why we are still here. If we were here for worship, we could do that in heaven just as well, maybe better. We are here to tell the gospel to all and teach those that believe it and encourage them to grow in Christ - so that they can do the same.
 
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Your understanding of the central purpose for that gethering of believers is very rare. Most believers have no clue. The central purpose is for mutual edification, not worship, as you already said. When Jesus defined acceptable worship before the Father, He used two words that describe a way of life, not ritual or habbit. For many years I have been talling folks that if one is not already living the life of acceptable worship unto the Father, then that individual will not enter a building, join the ritualistic flow, be moved by the emotionally manipulative mood music and words, and magically conjure up worship that is then acceptable before the Father. As it is, most institutions are teaching and practicing falsehood by letting their followers think that the "worship" service is inherently legitimate. Corporate worship flows only from lives who are already immersed in the depths of the life of acceptable worship before they enter the meeting place.

If the people are not allowed to edify one another, then how can meaingful, corporate worship ever be enjoyed? That is about as difficult a concept as trying to figure out how to fellowship with the backs of other people's heads.

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While I agree w/Discern on the teaching part;

most institutions are teaching and practicing falsehood by letting their followers think that the "worship" service is inherently legitimate

Seems like a bit of stereotypical judgement to me. Many Churches DO Teach and provide fellowship--We Need to seek those out, or start them. I just don't want us to give up on what you all call corporate church. Let US (real church) come together and support one another.
 
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discernomatic said:
Many think that we come together to worship, that worship is primary, but I think that it is not even secondary, it is not the most important part in the life of the believer. We will have time enough for that when we get to heaven. We come together to support each other, to encourage and teach each other, to learn from each other. And with the teaching and strength we gain from that, we go tell others the gospel, teaching those that believe. That is why we are still here. If we were here for worship, we could do that in heaven just as well, maybe better. We are here to tell the gospel to all and teach those that believe it and encourage them to grow in Christ - so that they can do the same.

I totally disagree with you here. I see worship as primary as it gets us into His mindset...it's where we hear Him. Works done without His heart at the center are just wasted time and effort.

"Worship is everything i am.. everything that is my makeup.. every aspect of my life, my talents, my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, my song, my dance, my everything submitted before Him, poured out extravagantly because He is worthy." This is a quote from my son...and I totally agree with it.

After this life...worship is all we will have...and it will be PALENTY, but the time for work will be over. And still, it is worship that sets the pace here and now...not the other way around.
 
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Qidron said:
I totally disagree with you here. I see worship as primary as it gets us into His mindset...it's where we hear Him. Works done without His heart at the center are just wasted time and effort.

"Worship is everything i am.. everything that is my makeup.. every aspect of my life, my talents, my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, my song, my dance, my everything submitted before Him, poured out extravagantly because He is worthy." This is a quote from my son...and I totally agree with it.

After this life...worship is all we will have...and it will be PALENTY, but the time for work will be over. And still, it is worship that sets the pace here and now...not the other way around.
I also have a good voice, have sung in choirs. I do like to practice and sing when I have the chance, but I find the teaching more important. At the moment I can only sing occasionally because of the need to learn and teach, had to put it on the back burner, and there it will stay until the situation changes. At least for me singing is not an option right now, nor can I see it becoming the major emphasis in my life again, there are too many other things to do. If you are a singer and/or musician I can understand your love of music and the emphasis it must have on your life, but that does not need to be true for non-musicians. I think that everyone has his field of expertise, he just has to find it.
 
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OK, I see the problem we have here...a difference in definitions for what worship is. I'm not talking about singing. That's why I included the quote from my son.

"Worship is everything i am.. everything that is my makeup.. every aspect of my life, my talents, my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, my song, my dance, my everything submitted before Him, poured out extravagantly because He is worthy."

The word WORSHIP literally means to pay homage to...bow down....to humble oneself...this opens us up.

It is true that today worship most often takes the form of music and singing in church services...and yeah, I do love worship songs especially free form worship...but ONLY because they AREN'T just singing.

THIS is essential and numero uno. :)

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dyanm said:
Seems like a bit of stereotypical judgement to me.

It would be stereotypical if I had said "all", which I did not say.

Many Churches DO Teach and provide fellowship--

Where? Which ones? How? When?

We Need to seek those out, or start them. I just don't want us to give up on what you all call corporate church.

Actually, I call it organized religion, and yes, I have given up on them; not as a whole, but mostly. How many have you ever heard of that knows what TRUE fellowship invovles, and allows such to exist? Coffee and doughnuts get-togethers is not true, gneuine fellowship.

Let US (real church) come together and support one another.

This sounds really great and all, but it simply is not allowed because of many contraints that the Lord has not seen fit to overcome just yet.

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Liberty Baptist Church and Vernon, Alabama is a small GOOD all round church. University Cathedral in LA, CA is an excellent teaching (its on the university level) facility.

I too have shared the Spiritual abuse of many a "organized" church.

This thread in many ways sounds like women complaining about men "All the good ones are gone". AND I JUST say No--they are there, they are not however unfortunately under every steeple.

Another concept is I don't always eat at one restaurant, When I want breakfast I may eat at one type and when I want dinner another may be better suited. Attending more than one church can be beneficial.
 
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dyanm said:
Another concept is I don't always eat at one restaurant, When I want breakfast I may eat at one type and when I want dinner another may be better suited. Attending more than one church can be beneficial.

I agree with you...but them organized churches really don't like this. It's just too scary for them. They want to keep a handle on THEIR congregations. They like it when you visit, but they don't take you very seriously if you don't JOIN.

Oh well. Bon apetit, just the same. :)

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Qidron said:
OK I'll go along with that. :thumbsup:

So we might agree with each other. I think FLANDIDLYANDERS has got it. Worship is a way of life. For me that has a lot to do with learning and teaching, comforting and supporting. Whether this is in a church setting, home church setting, on the net or in the corner pub is irrelevant to me.
 
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dyanm said:
Liberty Baptist Church and Vernon, Alabama is a small GOOD all round church. University Cathedral in LA, CA is an excellent teaching (its on the university level) facility.

Ok. What's happening here is that this is geting way off course from where it was originally headed. You're taking issue with things I never said. I didn't say anyhting about the quality of teaching. I specifically mentioned fellowship. Could you share with us your understanding of true, genuine fellowship? What do you believe is the central, biblical purpose for the gethering of believers?

I too have shared the Spiritual abuse of many a "organized" church.

Again, none of us was talking about spiritual abuse. Organized religion has, within its inherent makeup, various elements that are in fact existent in almost every church insitution across this country. From what you've described, yours is no different. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but do all of you sit in chairs, pews, or whatever, going through the motions of the "service" ritual? (I'm not angry, just trying to get at the root of the confusion so that you can understand what we are really saying.) You see, it's the "restaurant" mentality with which we take issue with. The fact that you used the restaurant simile in itself speaks loud volumes about your understanding of what you think the gathering of believers is about. In restaurants, you are fed only by the authorized staff of that establishment. In fellowship, TRUE fellowship, we go not only to be fed by others, but to feed others as well. When you're an audience, you're not allowed to feed others, but only to be fed...and that only happens IF the "pastor" actually happens to preach a message that just so happens to touch upon your own life and needs. This concept that one man can touch all the lives in the place is a grossly distorted concept that's still going on today, only because of the strength and power of tradition. Do you remember what Jesus had to say about religious traditions?

This thread in many ways sounds like women complaining about men "All the good ones are gone". AND I JUST say No--they are there, they are not however unfortunately under every steeple.

Maybe that's how you see it, but then, with all due respect, this shows that you aren't comprehending the depths of what we're really saying. This is apples and oranges.

Hey, don't give up on us. We're not talking about institutions themselves. We're talking about a mindset that is itself the stifling force within those institutions that's the problem. Being organized was never the issue. The mindset we've been talking about siffles and kills out any possibility for genuine, deep fellowship from blossoming within the main gathering of all those people. The misconception about the Biblical idea of "order" almost forces the Lord to share His throne with a concept that has been blown way out of proportion by tradition rather than any true and genuine understanding of how that term was used in the text.

Another concept is I don't always eat at one restaurant, When I want breakfast I may eat at one type and when I want dinner another may be better suited. Attending more than one church can be beneficial.

Well, since you appear to think that this is a proper simile, consider this:

You aren't allowed to go into a restaurant and feed the other customers (how ironic, right gang) yourself. If you try, they throw you out...poste haste. The same goes for organized religion. You try feeding others in the gathering, the ushers throw you out...poste haste. There isn't one institution in any city within which I have ever visited that serves as an antithesis to what I've just said. Believe me, I've asked, and haven't yet run across one. From the terminology you've used, and the concepts and comparisons you've put forth, yours is no different than all the rest in relation to the central theme of what we've been talking about.

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discernomatic said:
So we might agree with each other. I think FLANDIDLYANDERS has got it. Worship is a way of life. For me that has a lot to do with learning and teaching, comforting and supporting. Whether this is in a church setting, home church setting, on the net or in the corner pub is irrelevant to me.



I agree, not in some fancy big building with 100+ people
 
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discernomatic said:
Worship is a way of life. For me that has a lot to do with learning and teaching, comforting and supporting. Whether this is in a church setting, home church setting, on the net or in the corner pub is irrelevant to me.

Excellent point. :thumbsup:

I certainly understand why mose people have such a hard time grasping what we've been talking about, because it simply isn't taught from pulpits. There's always the fear within the leadership that the people might actually GET IT, and start desiring that which puts the pulpit in the back seat behind the Bible, where it really belongs. It was a sad day in history when the rcc established the pulpit as the main defining source for truth, rather than the written word of God. If this were not true, then we wouldn't have all the foolish, creeds and schismatic denominational distinctions within the body.

The lack of understanding for how the word of God REALLY defines words like worship, fellowship, etc., well, this all paints the usual portrait of an age old enemy of the Cross that lives and breaths within organized, institutional, religious entities, almost all of which hold a false endearment within the hearts of so many.

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Don't give up on us. We're not talking about institutions themselves. We're talking about a mindset that is itself the stifling force within those institutions that's the problem. Being organized was never the issue. The mindset we've been talking about sifles and kills out any possibility for genuine, deep fellowship from blossoming within the main gathering of all those people. The misconception about the Biblical idea of "order" almost forces the Lord to share His throne with a concept that has been blown way out of proportion by tradition, not any true and genuine understanding of how that term was used in the text.


I agree with what you say here. This is why I don't GO to church. I would love to...but when life problems arose within our 20+ year congregation, it turned out that there was no real foundation between us. What a shock that was :o... I had thought that Christ was our foundation...but as it turns out, He was not. We were taught that He was in the midst of us, but when His Word was drawn into the discussion to straighten things out...fellowship fellapart.

I'm interested in what you say here about the Biblical concept of order. Maybe I've got it wrong...please share. I'm a Berean...you have to use scripture.:)

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Discernomatic:
Worship is a way of life. For me that has a lot to do with learning and teaching, comforting and supporting. Whether this is in a church setting, home church setting, on the net or in the corner pub is irrelevant to me.


I'm trying to get hold of this. I agree that our life displays our worship...and who we worship. But all these things that we DO can so easily become just actions....I'm trying to put all this into the context of what the Lord means by worship. What does HE expect? Of course He's looking at our every day activities...but scripture seems to be referring to something different here. There was a service of worship performed..no? Help me here.

What I have understood worship to be is that specific time we plug into His presence. I believe that He is always here...but we are not always plugged into him...rather just doing things....maybe good things too...but we can become distracted away from HIM in them. You know, "..the work of the Lord coming before the Lord of the work." (Chip Brogden) At least that's what I have struggle with. I want to be alive and aware of His presence...in and around me...communicating ...24/7. And it ain't gonna happen by my will power. I have this desire and I offer it up to Him to make it be.

There was true revival happening here in the states in the late 90s and I did begin to experience Him in these large "worship" services. These worship services did revolve around singing...so it gets confusing here.Then His presence lifted and we had to make some descisions...and many just fell away. And I don't mean they fell away from those church services...many fell AWAY. I fell deeper into Him. I find THERE IS NO WHERE ELSE TO GO.

Some of us are becoming aware of the fallacies that were taught. God is good to do this for us. :) I want to get things straight by looking to the Word to make sure that what we adhere to NOW is correct.

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BeforeThereWas said:
people have such a hard time grasping what we've been talking about, because it simply isn't taught from pulpits. There's always the fear within the leadership that the people might actually GET IT, and start desiring that which puts the pulpit in the back seat behind the Bible, where it really belongs....The lack of understanding for how the word of God REALLY defines words like worship, fellowship, etc....

Mmm hmm! I think that is the hitch. Not that I am completely against organized religion, there are those that can lead happy and fulfilled lives there, but the fact that it can be overly organized makes it open to manipulation.

If you can control the whole thing and introduce false doctrine from the top down many won't question it until they have been through the mill, and even then many will insist that the system was correct, precisely because what they experienced came from the top down. They are taught to equate that a pastor's will or the denomination's decrees are the will of God, which is not what Scripture says. It may be that some are following his will closer than others, but there is no guarantee that a church is doing this.

Some denominations or congregations become exclusive, saying that the only true way to the Father is with their organisation. This can be demonstrated by the implementation of closed communion (like Catholics not sharing it with Protestants - or some Protestants not sharing it with others). Outwardly they call other groups "Christian" but the reservation of communion only for their own members is the true sign of what they believe, that all others, though they call themselves Christians, are lost, or are at least in the process of becoming so.

Again BTW's quote: "The lack of understanding for how the word of God REALLY defines words like worship, fellowship, etc...."

Some have been rejected from churches or other Christian groups for the way they do their hair or the way they dress. Those that rejected them from organized, too organized religion did not even take a proper look at Scripture before they did that.
 
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