Irresistible Grace was a losing idea - so you repackage it. But now its 'TULEP'. That does not work. How about shuffling the letters to get 'LET UP'. Another way of thinking about is that you make a change from "LIT UP" to "LET UP" - probably not.
God wants all to be saved and even John MacArthur and John Piper agree to that. Per your doctrine, the Holy Spirit elects one by changing their will without their consent. But then He passes over another one – effectively sentencing him to eternal fire. I don't see that in any church doctrinal statements because its repulsive.
1 Timothy 2:4 who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
This does not mean man’s will is
not involved. In John 6 we see Jesus disputing with the crowd of Jews that followed Him because He miraculously fed them the day before. A little later in the chapter, Jesus deliberately repulses the same crowd saying “unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in you” which appears to drive off everyone except the twelve the Father gave him in response to prayer in Luke 6:12-13. Someone said He turned a mega-church into a bible study.
In Ephesians 1:1-6 Peter addresses the “Faithful in Christ” and says they are predestined to all spiritual blessings in the the heavens.
You repeatedly make an assertion without scriptural evidence. The Holy Spirit convicts and draws – but that is not the same as changing man’s will. There is no scripture that God changes man’s will without man's consent (repentance). Some are drawn, but resist.
Acts 26:28 Then Agrippa said to Paul, “You almost persuade me to become a Christian.”
Wrong. Do you ever change your mind?
Your argument here is immaterial as Paul also dealt with his own “sinful flesh cannot please God” per 1 Corinthians 9:27.
Again the Holy Spirit’s convicting and drawing is not changing a man’s will.
Man’s will is not involved if an outside agency changed it without his permission. Ever watch the movie "The Stepford Wives"?