Wow. Well, I'm not going to say
@Clare73 does no such thing. But I would have to go back through the posts to see where, for example,
"4. Constantly demands to know how arguments made from Acts and NT Epistles relate to terms in Christ's parable (wheat, tare, sheep, goat)." is accurate. I have wondered at least once, how the wheat and tares subject came up, but have not seen it in such frequency as what I could call a methodology. But I will say that we all do such things as all 4 of your objections.
1) Read, for example,
@RickReads, or me, or even yourself, to find personal criticism, condescension and arrogance. Sometimes we do it from mere habit, and some of us do so because of our personality type, (which, granted, is no excuse), and some of us do it in reaction to the same projected at us.
2) The whole council of God, impossible to show on this format, is nevertheless a valid (
the valid(?)) judge of any doctrinal claim. Clare is right to invoke the principle. And are Scripture's passages not to be studied, explained, applied, interpreted, used? I'm not sure what your objection is here.
3) I will claim this fault myself, when, for example Ephesians 2:1-10 clearly says exactly and more concisely than I can, what I have been trying to get across. But so do all of us do that, sometimes with no more commentary than to say, "this means that we cooperate with God", or, "this means that we do choose" as though the implication is plain that our choosing implies no specific predestination. I think, too, that you will have to admit that sometimes the explanation or commentary runs so much longer than the text that it is counterproductive to include it.
4) Already answered above, in my first paragraph
5) FWIW it is a matter of principle that the Reformed try to be Reformable. But I have to say, it is something all of us do, that when we love something (such as the pure meaning/implications of Grace or of "Freewill"), we do have a tendency to insulate ourselves from opposing-sounding communications, or to be antagonistic towards them. Also, I too debated with myself early on whether to label myself Reformed, for that very reason. I claim 'Reformed' only because Reformed Theology most closely resembles what I think, and so that others who think like I do would more quickly know what I think by common reference. I don't think it is fair to accuse Clare of posing, or of being Calvinistic for Calvinism's sake —certainly no more than how others do what they do, perhaps by clinging to the name of Baptist or Methodist or whatever other denomination they think they can, instead of outright naming themselves "freewiller" which "is [what they] obviously [are]" and defend.
In Clare's defense (yes, no doubt, I am biased) I have yet to hear something she has posted that was merely pointless or petty. I think more often the angry responses she gets are the result of the frustration of people who don't know how to defend their opinions against the plain reason of her attacks on them. Also, I have seen this: that we all have a POV problem with any other person, whose statements are as often as not taken to imply things they simply had not meant.