If a God exists, he or she can do whatever they like. I have the capacity to decide for myself if those actions are moral or immoral. If someone dishes out eternal punishment for simply not being convinced of their existence, I find this to be capricious and deserving of no respect.
Thank you for taking the time to write such a long and thoughtful post. 1st, you will not be forgiven because of your unbelief; but, if you continue in unbelief, you will be condemned (John 3), not for unbelief specifically, but for rebellion against your Creator (Romans). Every unloving, selfish, and arrogant act/failure to act is an affront to a perfectly good and holy God, and we have chosen to do these things despite our conscience (which in part was given to us by God, but some things are culturally inserted/changed) which tells us these things are wrong (Romans). We have all rebelled against God by choosing not to do what is loving and good... that is why we will be condemned unless we accept God's pardon (John 3), which takes humility to admit that we need forgiveness/salvation because we cannot be perfect on our own (Romans).
This sounds like you're projecting what you want a God to be defined as. Is the torture and killing of another person necessary for salvation? If Jesus were alive today and told you he was going to have himself tortured and killed for you, would you allow it? Would it be moral for you to allow it?
1st John tells us that "God is love" (Greek "agape"); a love that gives of self, that desires only for the good of the one loved. God knew what He would do from the beginning (Ephesians), because He knew that once man chose to rebel it would be impossible to forgive without satisfying perfect justice (Romans). Jesus died a terrible physical death, true, and that death was necessary for the forgiveness of our sins, but even more Jesus endured the wrath we deserved from His Father, and fellowship of love that was eternal was marred temporarilly by that wrath poured out on the Son (thus Jesus cried: "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?")... what this meant to Jesus and the Father cannot be fathomed by us.
Why wrath? Well, I suppose you would have wrath if a baby of yours, or someone you loved very dearly, was raped, tortured, and murdered by someone. And you would think that person deserving of your wrath, and rightfully so. The thing is, God is PERFECTLY good, righteous, just, loving, holy, and pure... to Him the least failure to act in agape love is in His eyes just as terrible as the rape, torture, and murder of a baby is in yours. We have a sin problem, blinding us to the terribleness of our everyday failure to love.
If Jesus were walking the Earth today (and He will again one day), I would do whatever He told me to do, because I have absolute faith that He would never ask me to do anything evil or wrong, only good (James). This is why I won't do anything evil today, no matter what some voice in my head may tell me, because I know God is good, not evil. I have experienced fellowship with Him, and I can testify that I found nothing but goodness and love in Him. Moreover, when He returns, I will know Him perfectly, just as I am known perfectly by Him (1st Corinthians 13), so I won't have to guess as to why He asks me to do something. Please don't bother to come up with some heinous act and ask me if I would do it... I KNOW God would not ask me to do anything wrong, and I won't bother to respond.
Why do we need to be saved? This basically makes us objects in a cruel experiment. In my opinion, it's an insult to humanity. Humanity has accomplished great things. Do we make mistakes? Sure. But it is our responsibility to correct those mistakes on our own. To suggest we need a savior is like saying we are basically worthless. I don't accept that nonsense. I don't accept telling that to young children either.
This right here is the heart of the matter. God is omniscient, He does not experiment. On whose backs has the western world accomplished greatness? How many people are living in what we would consider abject poverty? How many people are currently running for their lives from war and terrorism? Even in America, kids go hungry, people are murdered, raped, tortured, bullied, abandoned, wrongfully imprisoned, etc., etc., etc.
ad infinitum. Don't get me wrong, people are also capable of great acts of love and kindness, but our basic instinct is to look out for number one, and we all do/say unloving things or fail to do/say the loving thing on a daily basis. Yet we are of infinite value in the eyes of God, so much so that Jesus was willing to endure the death on the cross and the wrath of the Father in order to redeem us. We are NOT worthless, just broken and in need of a tune-up. I would never tell a child they are worthless, and I politely ask you to not put words in Christian's mouths that you have not heard come from their mouths... no true Christian is telling anyone they are worthless, only imperfect and in need of help from a perfect God.
So, we need to toss all of our sins onto someone else and that someone needs to be tortured and killed? That is scapegoating. It removes all of your own personal responsibility. Kill someone? no big deal, just ask Jesus for forgiveness. Cheat on your wife? It's all good, just ask for forgiveness and it's all good. Prey on children? Hey, nobody is perfect, just ask Jesus for forgiveness. This is nonsense. I am responsible for my own actions. If I wrong someone, it is my responsibility to correct that wrong, accept the consequences of those actions and try to become a better person.
Jesus said that you will know a Christian by their fruit (actions and attitudes). No true Christian would live the way you describe here... though I admit that I have done wrong things knowing that I would be forgiven... yet I am ashamed of those times and do not live that as a way of life, and neither would any other person who has God's Holy Spirit dwelling in them.
This saddens me. You're telling me you'd accept that someone who raped and murdered your child gets eternal paradise while your child is not afforded this because they simply did not believe? In my opinion, this is the wish to be an abject slave.
I am Christ's bondservant. I have been forgiven more than even I know, and it is not for me to condemn someone else for their actions, however heinous I may find them. I would be greatly saddened by the loss of my loved one, but I cannot charge God with wrongdoing for forgiving someone who truly repented (only God knows Dahmer's true heart), nor for condemning someone too arrogant to humble themselves before their Creator and ask forgiveness.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I think the world is very beautiful and we are capable of great things. Do bad things happen? Are there bad people? Sure. But life isn't fair. We must do our best to improve the world. Punish evil when we see it and reward good when we see it as best we can.
Life is wonderfull! I love being alive! There is soo much good in the world... but the world systems are broken and sick to their core, and corrupted by man's selfishness. Even institutional Christianity is corrupted by it at times. As a Christian I try to do what I can to alleviate suffering when I see it.
Thank you for pointing that out. Sorry for projecting what I thought your idea of hell was. I do have to ask, how do you know this? How do you determine what is literal and what is not? It sounds like you've just made up in your head what you want God to be. There are many people who do think hell is a place of fire and torture. How does I determine who is right and who isn't and more importantly, how do you? Are you just making it up in your head or do you actually know?
I am going by what the Greek words mean at their core, and the fact that symbolism is a constant theme when describing eternal/heavenly realities... and I am also going by what the Bible says about God's character, believing that God IS good and righteous. I agree with you, a good God would not torture people in fire for all eternity. As I once heard another person say: "If I get to heaven and find a literal lake of fire with people being eternally roasted, I will be the first to jump in."