This. Christianity's main attraction could be its founder's message of forgiveness and compassion. If half of all Christians followed the morality of Jesus half the time, it would change the world. Yet so many people reduce it to a sort of Victorian headmaster's religion which exists to condemn gay people and swear words, and is absolutely obsessed with sex.
Good. I'm not saying all Christians fail to practice love and forgiveness, or even most Christians. It's just that in my experience, too many Christians care much more about masturbation, inappropriate contentography and homosexuality than poverty and hatred, which a lot of them actually defend. I just read Martin Luther King's account of the Montgomery Bus Boycott, where he said the most consistent supporters of racism were very religious people (and he was a minister, so he had no grudges against Christianity). Look at any thread on CF involving race—like my last two threads, where I tried to refute racist misconceptions—and you'll see the same pattern. I've also noticed, as a double-minority, that people who hate me for being who I am tend to be Christian fundamentalists. A lot of other people notice that too, and are turned away from Christianity as a result.
