Arrrrgggghhhh!!! I hate that. The other night I went to insert a smilie and it acted like I had the entire post selected so it replaced everything with a smilie. Guess which one? That's right, the laughing one!!! I was not laughing!!
1. Agreed, not everyone becomes a child of God. And before we profess Christ, we are not his children. Only those who receive Jesus.
Okay, so you don't believe we are his children before we are saved but you believe anyone can be saved, right? How am I doing so far? And, what makes us his child is that we receive His Son, right? What does that mean to be His child? Is that an indicator of someone's salvation?
I believe that all men have this option, reason being is that God is not willing that any of us should perish. It would only make sense that God would allow all of his creation the chance to become a child of God.
Okay, acknowledging your belief in man's ability to make any moral decision, free will, you believe that, conceivably, all men could have been saved, or even absolutely none because it is up to the person making the choice, right?
And God being a gentleman, he does not force us to do so. He give us free will to choose him and have eternal life, or live without him and have eternal death.
Gentleman??
Can't say I've ever heard that one before. LOL!
I don't know if you're married but let's assume you are not. Let's say we were close enough friends where I could conceivably set you up on a date. Let's say I came to you and said, "Okay Dave, Cindy or Sue, which one?" What would you say? Wouldn't you kinda need to know something about both of the perspective dates?
2. It is true, as scripture says, that we are not born of human decision. This is the same as saying that we cannot create the world with human decision. There are certain things that only God can do, and in that verse it says that only God can make us born again, we cannot do it ourselves. After all, if we could do it ourselves, there would be no need for the blood of Jesus Christ!
Okay. I'm with you so far...
Now, what does this mean if we are not born of human decision? It simply means that God has decided to save us, we did no decide to save ourselves. It is God's role to stand at the door and knock, but it is our role to open the door. Meaning, God has offered us grace, but we need to receive it.
So what was God's basis for saving you, God's decision to save you or your decision to be saved? God standing at the door and knocking or you opening the door? God's offer of grace or you receiving it?
He will not bust open the door of our heart, he knocks, we need to respond.
No offense but this is where I seriously think you drive a spike in God's sovereignty. God needed you to do something for His plan to be made manifest? What if God's plan for you was your salvation as you say is God's plan for everyone, but you said, "Naaah. I'll pass." Does the will of the Father hinge on the will of the creation?
We have the option of rejecting Jesus and following our own selfish desires, I see people do it all the time.
So because you see someone say, "That whole religion bit isn't my bag baby" means that at that point they are rejecting God? Where is God in all that, sitting around waiting and hoping that man will choose Him? Don't you feel that makes the plan of the Creator subject to the will of the creation?
4. I think we are getting into a bit of a word game with the whole faith/grace thing. You say we are saved by God's grace and discount (in part) the work of our faith.
I don't mean to discount it. I just acknowledge that until God regenerated me I had no faith. I was fallen. Our faith in God is not something that was a remnant within us after the Fall. We were fallen. God put the faith there.
I say we are saved by God's grace and say it comes WHEN we have faith.
So God's grace comes when we have faith? You sure about that?
Matthew 5:45
He makes His sun rise
on the evil and on the good, and sends rain
on the just and on the unjust.
God's gives His grace to all mankind. We are alive only because of His grace. We shall not perish only because of His grace. He just limits His
saving grace to His elect.
Check this out....
Romans 5:2
"through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. "
Cool, but check out 3 verses later:
Romans 5:5
Now hope does not disappoint, because
the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
Where did our love for God come from?
1 John 4:19
We love Him
because He first loved us.
Romans 10: 9-10
"That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved."
And you take this to mean your action of believing is why you are justified, and your action of confessing is why you are saved?
Ephesians 2: 8
"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-- "
Why did you quote a verse that says that faith is not from yourself but rather a gift of God, which by the way, is what I said? By the way, look at verse 5:
Ephesians 2:5
even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)
Okay, we were dead and God saved us by His grace. Do you believe you loved God before He saved you?
1 John 4:10
In this is love,
not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
OK, we have gained access to grace BY FAITH, and saved THROUGH FATIH. Well.. what faith!!?? Our faith dude ! We have grace because we have faith. I have faith because I heard of Jesus and was compelled to believe. Yes, admittedly, God was at work in my heart. But he draws all men unto himself, including you, me, and Joe Nobody. There is nothing more special about me than there is about anyone else.
Well if God did the same thing to draw you, me and Joe Nobody to him what was it that made you and I choose Him then? You say there was nothing special about us, but it sounds to me like you think there was something special about us. Maybe less pride? More intellect? More humility? Something made us different, right? If our difference resulted in our everlasting life wouldn't you say that was a pretty special, even spectacular, difference?
God bless