The New Testament mentions many times the importance of being filled with the Spirit, but what does it mean, and what are practical ways to achieve it? How can I know if I'm filled with the Spirit or not?
Being filled by the Spirit is, I believe, predicated upon being in submission to him, surrendered to his will and way throughout every day (
Romans 6:13-22; Romans 8:14; Romans 12:1; James 4:7; 1 Peter 5:6). When one is living before God in humble yieldedness to Him, the Spirit moves to fill the believer with himself, conforming the believer to the Person of Christ, transforming their desires, thinking and conduct, producing in them the Fruit of the Spirit (
Galatians 5:22-23; Ephesians 5:9).
For some reason, Christians think they can move forward with God, growing in their experience of Him, becoming more like Christ while simultaneously maintaining autonomy from God, acting largely according to their own preferences and personality, thinking of God as a mere aid to living rather than as its fundamental core. He orbits their life, they believe, rather than the reverse. But so long as this is the case, real fellowship with God, real filling with, and transformation by, the Spirit cannot happen. God will not force us to change; He will not wrest from us the life He made us to have; we must choose it; we must agree to His rule. And we do so by the constant renewal of our submission to Him throughout each day.
In any event, the filling of the Spirit is not a
sensual thing, provoking one's physical senses, stimulating them, and inducing hysterics, convulsions, etc. The Spirit deals with us
spiritually, in our minds, particularly (
Romans 8:6; Romans 12:2; Ephesians 4:23; Philippians 2:5; 1 Corinthians 14:19), as well as our hearts and spirits, acting upon our thinking and desires, not in the realm of our fleshly sensations and emotions. In fact, the more flesh-centered, the more sensual, one's experiences of God are, the less truly spiritual, the less of Him, they are.
Galatians 5:17
17 For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please.
Romans 8:5-8
5 For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.
6 For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace,
7 because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so,
8 and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
Jude 1:17-19
17 But, beloved, remember the words which were spoken before by the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ;
18 How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts.
19 These are they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit.
How do you know you are filled with the Spirit? By a profoundly transformed - and transforming - life; by a life that is constantly in process toward an ever-more holy, Christ-centered, joyful, spiritually-fruitful life. Many believers, though, want the flavor of the World in their walk with God. They want spiritual change in tandem with the fleshly stimulation of the World, the exciting noise and glitter of temporal, carnal things, not the rest, peace, stillness and eternal, heavenly focus of a life filled with the Spirit.
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