I see you never got an answer to your questions. I don't think I can give 10 answers in each category, but here are some thoughts.
Chores: Really, I hate most of them.
A couple that stand out are:
1. Cleaning out the fridge. You know, that cucumber from last month that you forgot about. But I'm the one who hates it the least, so I do it.
2. Cleaning up when the cat barfs up her breakfast. It was my idea to have a cat, so I get cleanup duty. Blech.
[ I think I see a theme here. ]
Encouraging other people (including women):
1. Giving specific complements about something they did. "Your presentation today was really clear -- I understand the concept much better now." "That soup you made was delicious." "I enjoyed the story you wrote."
[ Maybe this list has just the one thing in it. ]
Free time activities: (Ha! Free time! What's that?)
1. Singing, especially in groups when we can sing fun harmonies.
2. Dancing
3. Martial arts
4. Jigsaw puzzles
5. Taking walks in pretty places, especially if there's water nearby
6. Reading sf/fantasy novels
I hope your game night at church goes well.
