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What do you look for in a girl/guy?
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Well she has to be around my age, doesnt drink- do drugs or party, a good kisser, cute, has good moral values, being christian would be a lovely quality...and somewhat athletic, or at least in good shape...
Kendall
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I Look for evidence that the person is truly a christian in how they live their lifes and not just in what they say actions speak louder than words and Ladies should be prayerful in their choice christian men are not always what they seem and may call themselves a christian but this may not show in their lifes or relationships with others.
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Centrifuge04
Centrifuge 04 was Awesome
When I look for a Christian woman what I want is one that is nice,cool,interesting and loves the Lord with all her heart
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waitingprincess
John 14:3
I look for someone who seems like a good candidate for possibly marrying someday. I have a list of things I want in a future husband and when I come across a guy I'm interested in or who is interested in me I look at the things I want in a husband and if what I know about that guy is consistant with those things I consider dating him, but if he isn't those things I decide to wait for the guy God has set aside for me; that guy will meet all of those things I have in mind...even the ones I'm afraid to write down because they seem so unlikely in today's world.
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I too have a list of characteristics that I would like the man that God has for me- to have himself. The one thing that I understand is that for me to fully appreciate these attributes in someone else I must possess them myself. So in looking for the one God has for you, you should also work on yourself.
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GL2814
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I look for in a girl someone who has a sense of humor. Does not take herself too seriously all the time. She has to love to laugh. That is such a turn-on for me. Of course the #1 thing is that she is a Godly woman.
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I`d look at the mans relationship with the Lord and wether he is humbled before God I am not keen on men who are full of self importance am looking for a man with less of self and more of Jesus if someone is too full of self theres not much room for Jesus. I look for evidence of fruits of the spirit as listed in the bible.
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~WildRoseCowgirl~
Jesus My Redeemer
I look for somone who is beautiful on the inside, has their sights set on God, and are full steam ahead for whatever he wants in their lives.
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#1 She has to be a fellow believer, and open to what God has for her life.
#2 She has to have a good sense of humor, because I'm always joking around.
#3 She has to be willing to try new things because I love being active and would love to share that time with her.
#2 She has to have a good sense of humor, because I'm always joking around.
#3 She has to be willing to try new things because I love being active and would love to share that time with her.
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CZzyzx41
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Similar religious beliefs are key
Physical attractiveness plays a part
Intelligence is also big. I want to be able to have long winded discussions about all sorts of issues with her.
Must be culturally experienced, meaning she's willing to try (and perhaps already knowledgable in and enjoys) different movies, styles, foods, etc from different areas of the world.
Must be kind and generous with a big heart. Very unselfish.
With marriage I would think agreeing on how to raise or children is key.
Must share at least some similar interests.
My wife fits all these and is improving in many other ways every day, as am I and through that we're ever growing closer.
Physical attractiveness plays a part
Intelligence is also big. I want to be able to have long winded discussions about all sorts of issues with her.
Must be culturally experienced, meaning she's willing to try (and perhaps already knowledgable in and enjoys) different movies, styles, foods, etc from different areas of the world.
Must be kind and generous with a big heart. Very unselfish.
With marriage I would think agreeing on how to raise or children is key.
Must share at least some similar interests.
My wife fits all these and is improving in many other ways every day, as am I and through that we're ever growing closer.
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