Hey guys... gals... friends... companions on this board... whatever you are to me here...
I am coming to you for advice... i have been put in a tough spot, and I dont know what to do... I need help. And I need to be strong enough to ask for it now.
Long story short, my mom and sisters have put me in a bad spot.
My mom kicked my sisters out of the house today because they went against her and went to Ohio to pick up their friend Cassie, who wanted to come home but had no way of getting here.
So when they got home this morning she told them they could pack their stuff and leave. And that they were not welcome there anymore.
What am I supposed to do when my baby sisters are calling me crying because they have no where else to go? I cant afford to let them move in here, I cant feed two teenage mouths, I have a hard enough time supporting luke and me. I have the room but not enough money for them.
One of them works almost 40 hours a week, which is great but she is the rebel, the pot and cigeratte smoker... I cant have that in my house.. I have a two year old! The other one only works about 5 to 10 hours a week and can barely afford gas... and she goes out and parties several times a week. I cant stay up late worrying if she is going ot try and drive home....
But I cant just sit here and watch them suffer, they are my baby sisters... they are only 18, neither of them has their heads on straight enough to survive out there.
And my moms response when i called her... "THey have shelters out there... or their friends... and boyfriends."
She doesnt even care.
What am I supposed to say when my baby sister calls me and tells me she is living in her car for a week until my mom takes it away because she cant afford the insurance on it.
I am sitting here crying... I dont know what to do ... I want my sisters to have good lives, not to suffer for the mistakes they have made with their teenage years...
What do I do? What would you do?
Please... I am at a loss.
~nicole
I am coming to you for advice... i have been put in a tough spot, and I dont know what to do... I need help. And I need to be strong enough to ask for it now.
Long story short, my mom and sisters have put me in a bad spot.
My mom kicked my sisters out of the house today because they went against her and went to Ohio to pick up their friend Cassie, who wanted to come home but had no way of getting here.
So when they got home this morning she told them they could pack their stuff and leave. And that they were not welcome there anymore.
What am I supposed to do when my baby sisters are calling me crying because they have no where else to go? I cant afford to let them move in here, I cant feed two teenage mouths, I have a hard enough time supporting luke and me. I have the room but not enough money for them.
One of them works almost 40 hours a week, which is great but she is the rebel, the pot and cigeratte smoker... I cant have that in my house.. I have a two year old! The other one only works about 5 to 10 hours a week and can barely afford gas... and she goes out and parties several times a week. I cant stay up late worrying if she is going ot try and drive home....
But I cant just sit here and watch them suffer, they are my baby sisters... they are only 18, neither of them has their heads on straight enough to survive out there.
And my moms response when i called her... "THey have shelters out there... or their friends... and boyfriends."
She doesnt even care.
What am I supposed to say when my baby sister calls me and tells me she is living in her car for a week until my mom takes it away because she cant afford the insurance on it.
I am sitting here crying... I dont know what to do ... I want my sisters to have good lives, not to suffer for the mistakes they have made with their teenage years...
What do I do? What would you do?
Please... I am at a loss.
~nicole