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What de-conversion feels like

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Lokmer said:
Um...there is.

You see, there's this science called "lexicography" which is concerned with the definitions of words and the structure of langage. Lexicographers produce books called "dictionaries" which chronicle the common social contract by which certain words mean certain things.
I'm sorry, but you have missed the point. It is clearly not universally accepted that God is sadistic. That is the definition to which I refer. You are, of course, free to make the attempt. Or you can continue to maintain that you will not attempt to prove anything that you say. It really doesn't matter. You see, I expect nonbelievers to actively hate the Lord.

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It is hardly my fault that Christian theology does not square with Christian scriptures without a good deal of wiggling. And it's rather glib and inaccurate to imply that there is such a thing as a uniform opinion or universal agreement in "Christian theology."

Like I said, you are free to make the claim that my theology doesn't square with Scriptures. I will simply repeat my assertion that your claims are denied out of hand and you are invited to try and prove your claims. I don't really expect you to. I don't think you can.

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Certainly. Any time you spend slagging each other off for minor differences of opinion is time that you're not out in the world feeding and clothing the needy, displaying lovingkindness to your family, friends, and enemies, or talking with people about other things that make their life worth living, or praying and trying to go "further up and further in" to God's mysteries (to steal a term from C.S. Lewis).
It takes 2 to tango. Any time you spend slaggin of on this forum is time that you are not out spending feeding and clothing the needs, etc.

BTW, I simply deny your attempt to paint me as not doing these things. You don't know me and to presume that you do is arrogant at best.

Lokmer said:
You really do need to work on how you set up double-binds. You seem to really like them, but you're not very good at it.
-Lokmer
It must be nice to be able to paint a picture of some people engaging in what you call a "spiritual matrubation" while pretending that you are not engaged in the same self-gratifying activities.

Thankfully, I hold myself to a higher standard.
 
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CCWoody said:
I'm sorry, but you have missed the point. It is clearly not universally accepted that God is sadistic. That is the definition to which I refer.

No, I didn't miss the point, rather I covered my bases. I posted both the lexicography of the word "sadistic" AND made a supporting argument based upon that, and I further offered contingent explainations that don't require God to be sadistic.

You are, of course, free to make the attempt. Or you can continue to maintain that you will not attempt to prove anything that you say. It really doesn't matter. You see, I expect nonbelievers to actively hate the Lord.

You lie, sir. You are replying to a post which makes arguments that you claim to be asking for, yet you not only do not address them, but you insist that they were never made in the first place. You further continue on to insinuate that I hate "the lord" even though I have openly stated that I believe that, alas, no such being exists (though this was admittedly on another thread and it is possible that you did not see it).

You are operating (unless I misread your words quoted above) from prejudice rather than a desire for dialogue. This is unfortunate.

Like I said, you are free to make the claim that my theology doesn't square with Scriptures. I will simply repeat my assertion that your claims are denied out of hand and you are invited to try and prove your claims.

I have backed them up with argument - in fact, my first post in this thread contains a detailed list of different salvation plans found in the new testament, which I have subsequently reiterated. You seem far more interested in denying things out of hand when you do not wish to deal with them. That is your perrogative. Misrepresenting me is not your perrogative, however.

I don't really expect you to. I don't think you can.

I have. Whether or not it was a successful attempt remains the matter for discussion. However, since it seems that it's a matter that you do not wish to discuss, perhaps spending your day on things that do not annoy you as much as I would be more profitable for you.

It takes 2 to tango. Any time you spend slaggin of on this forum is time that you are not out spending feeding and clothing the needs, etc.

I have dealt with this in a previous post. Again you misrepresent me and ignore the answers I give.

BTW, I simply deny your attempt to paint me as not doing these things. You don't know me and to presume that you do is arrogant at best.

I didn't paint you directly as trying to do (or avoid doing) those things. If you feel you were caught out by implication, perhaps it is your conscience speaking, or a raw spot on your interpersonal radar, or sloppy wording on my part (or a combination of all three). What I fail to understand is that you dismissed it out of hand, and yet continue to bring it up.

It must be nice to be able to paint a picture of some people engaging in what you call a "spiritual matrubation" while pretending that you are not engaged in the same self-gratifying activities.

You just don't want to let go of the masturbation thing, do you? I already admitted that it may have been a poor choice of words, but regardless of what I say, you trot it out in every post you've made to me in this thread as some sort of personal slight.

Further, I have pretended nothing. When challenged on the matter, by you (and in a disingenuous fashion) I proffered a clarification, which you subsequently ignored.

You have proved yourself in this thread to be interested in agitation, not discussion. You represent the Christian (even the Calvanist) view poorly, if at all, preferring to pile innuendo and insult upon your opponent when said opponent answers your accuasations directly. You have behaved in a doggedly self-righteous fashion, never once considering that you might be wrong in matters of form if not of content (by contrast, I have admitted to error on several occasions and have backed off from two more dramatic rehtorical flourishes). You are - by your own admission - operating from prejudice.

Such tactics must be gratifying when they get a rise out of people. It doesn't work with me, as must be terribly clear to you after so many exchanges over three threads in the last 3 days. Perhaps you should go pick on someone a little smaller - - or, if you prefer, engage in a substantive discussion.

I will not respond further to posts of yours that do not address the debate matters at hand, but I will gladly engage you on any substantive issue, if only for the entertainment of the others watching this thread.

-Lokmer
 
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CCWoody said:
You see, I expect nonbelievers to actively hate the Lord.

It's no more than I "actively hate" the Dark Lord Sauron or the Wicked Witch of the West. And considering that Jesus is portrayed as a sympathetic character, it's even less than that, if anything.
 
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Natro said:
What does it feel like? Like losing 21 grams.:p
21 grams isn't even an ounce..
Not enough
I'll go for lighter than air though
It's just the difficulties that come with it make it more like a lead balloon...
 
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Cat59 said:
21 grams isn't even an ounce..
Not enough
I'll go for lighter than air though
It's just the difficulties that come with it make it more like a lead balloon...

I think he's refering to the alleged weight of the human soul.....
 
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LibertyChic said:
Oh and here I thought you got that and were just being facetious. :p
Just sheer ignorance I'm afraid..
So much I don't know...
Didn't even know the alleged weight of the human soul...

But I was being facetious anyway (deadpan mode)
 
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Lokmer said:
Translation: "I lost that round, but I'm going to pretend that my loss is actually a win and showboat on it."

No you didn't like the Jefferson example so I gave you another one, and that argumet you will lose in spite of your out-of-context quotes, which don't show him to be an athist as you claimed twice. Big mistake man

He did not say we should worship Jesus. He did say that a primitivist version of Christianity was holy and good...you know, kind of like Thomas Jefferson did.



Totally subjective? The only subjectivism I see creeping in here is your attempt to construe "bad guys" as antichristian and "good guys" as all on your side. A few points of reality checks here:

Blah blah. You are the one who said he was an atheist, but he never did
1) You're a calvanist,

Nope
2) There are many, many people - the majority of non-Christians in the post-enlightenment west, I'd wager - who don't believe a word of Christian doctrine and yet see great value in some of its moral teachings, or see great beauty in its stories, and thus encourage those who can believe to be earnest in their faith.

Yup. So what?

Jefferson and Douglass were both of the second stripe, as even a cursory look at their writings makes clear. Contrary to your assertion that I "say he's an atheist anyway," I made it quite clear that some of his writings impute a possible diestic belief system, but that there isn't enough to make a firm judgement.

No you specifically said he was an atheist. Now you're forced to retract.

Here are some quotes from Fredrick Douglass that are fairly damning for your position:
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"I prayed for twenty years but received no answer until I prayed with my legs."

"Where I to be again reduced to the chains of slavery, next to that enslavement, I should regard being the slave of a religious master the greatest calamity that could befall me...I...hate the corrupt, slaveholding, women-whipping, cradle-plundering, partial and hypocritical Christianity of this land." (from "After The Escape")

"The church of this country is not only indifferent to the wrongs of the slave, it actually takes sides with the oppressors.... For my part, I would say, welcome infidelity! Welcome atheism! Welcome anything! in preference to the gospel, as preached by these Divines! They convert the very name of religion into an engine of tyranny and barbarous cruelty, and serve to confirm more infidels, in this age, than all the infidel writings of Thomas Paine, Voltaire, and Bolingbroke put together have done!" (from "The Meaning of July Fourth for the Negro")


Care to retract your slander now?

I didn't slander anything but your wild, unsupported and uncategorical statements. But just like we found out Borlaug didn't invent anything and didn't feed a billion people and didn't use his own money, we will see what Douglas said that no atheist has ever said.

What you left out of his speech:

America is false to the past, false to the present, and solemnly binds herself to be false to the future. Standing with God and the crushed and bleeding slave on this occasion, I will, in the name of humanity which is outraged, in the name of liberty which is fettered, in the name of the Constitution and the Bible which are disregarded and trampled upon,

An atheist standing with God and in the name of the Bible? Sure man, that's real atheist talk. Let's not be confused. He merely said atheism was more welcome than hypocrisy. I totally agree. Now do you totally agree that you stand with God and in the name of the Bible in your judgements?

NOT. Nice selective quote mining job though.

In addition to the really good things that he said and did, Christ publically insulted his mother, committed acts of terrorism in the temple, committed a capitol offence (Sabbath breaking) because he believed that the needs of men are higher than the law of God, lied to his brothers, demanded abject servitude from his disciples, encouraged vagrancy, and validated slavery. It seems that the definition of Christlike, as given in the gospels, is consierably wider than your operational definition.

Those were all holy acts IMO, putting obedience to God above all else. But you are entitled to your totally subjective moral judgement as well.
And, once again, Medeival Catholic theologians and clergy *DID* have access to the Bible ---

Unfortunately they were totally corrupt as Jefferson and Adams said, and forgot to inform the laity of what it said. When the Protestants did so, the Crusades and inquistions mysteriously stopped and the "age of enlightenment" began. BUt I know, it's all a big coincidence.

not that that should matter if the Holy Spirit bears witness of what is right to the heart of the elect.

More meanigless, irrelevant rhetoric? I guess your apology for speculating on motives didn't mean much. BTW calling people personally disingenuous as you did earlier is against the rules too. Any clue why that is? I have. It merely inflames the person and is not cinducive to debate. That's why I have NEVER called anyone personally disingenuous or dishonest. It doesn't help maintaining your objectivity.

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Cat59 said:
:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
Youlearn something new every day...

Cat59, did you read the whole thing? Although the top says "True", the article is actually only saying that it's True that the experiments were performed and instead clearly explains why the results of the experiment were dubious.

So, yes someone did peform such experiments almost 100 years ago, but the results are inconclusive.
 
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Rize said:
Cat59, did you read the whole thing? Although the top says "True", the article is actually only saying that it's True that the experiments were performed and instead clearly explains why the results of the experiment were dubious.

So, yes someone did peform such experiments almost 100 years ago, but the results are inconclusive.
Yes, my astonishment was that someone would even contemplate such a horrendous experiment.
Hence the :eek: :eek: :eek:
 
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