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Totally! I want to lose another 50lbs by summer. Since I've been going to the gym regularly, my weight has been going up, then back down. I'd rather it go down, and then way down.Thats awesome! It's a great feeling and it only gets better overtime. Plus with the summer coming up, losing this weight would only make going to the beach a lot better![]()
Are you happy with yours?
How often do you think about it?
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Never happy with mine. Dieting now trying to lose 27.50 more pounds. I am praying that it works this time and I don't gain any back so I can concentrate my energy somewhere else besides my weight! Really sick of dieting and I REALLY hate being fat so....now when I have a craving I ask myself "do you want to eat that and be fat? or not eat and be thin?" So far, I choose be thin lol. Not there yet though!
I think "dieting" is doomed to eventual failure. The concept brings to mind something that is a temporary fix. New ways of living and eating that one seeks to *keep* are more lasting and give longer lasting results.
When old eating habits surface - instead of thinking of the weight I will gain, I make the effort to think of a healthy replacement. For instance, just yesterday, even though I had breakfast before a work out...a few hours later I was in town and hungry again. I thought of getting perhaps a hamburger at a fast food place - but instead reminded myself of a yummy salad recipe filled with seeds and nuts and good stuff with yummy dressing I could make at home. With that replacement in mind, that is what I did when I got home.
Food *replacement works alot better than food denial.![]()
I think "dieting" is doomed to eventual failure. The concept brings to mind something that is a temporary fix. New ways of living and eating that one seeks to *keep* are more lasting and give longer lasting results.
When old eating habits surface - instead of thinking of the weight I will gain, I make the effort to think of a healthy replacement. For instance, just yesterday, even though I had breakfast before a work out...a few hours later I was in town and hungry again. I thought of getting perhaps a hamburger at a fast food place - but instead reminded myself of a yummy salad recipe filled with seeds and nuts and good stuff with yummy dressing I could make at home. With that replacement in mind, that is what I did when I got home.
Food *replacement works alot better than food denial.![]()

I wish I could be slim to be honest. Seems like that is not my natural weight though.
lol