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DZoolander

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How much was spent on the engagement ring?

Not gonna say...but about 12 times more than my wedding ring. ;)

How long were you together before being engaged?

About a year and a half.

How long were you engaged?

About 8 months.

What time of year did you get married?

Fall.

Would you change anything?


Well, my mom passed away about 3 months before we got married. In a perfect world - she would've been there.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?
~$120,000

How long were you together before being engaged?
~ 5 Years

How long were you engaged?
~ 8 months

What time of year did you get married?
September

Would you change anything?
Shorter guest list
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?

Don't know, that was DH completely.


How long were you together before being engaged?

6 weeks. :blush:


How long were you engaged?

18 months (longer than we would have liked, but family dramas meant it had to be that way)


What time of year did you get married?

Winter


Would you change anything?

No, it was a fantastic day.


edit to add: Redguard, is that engagement ring price a typo, a "none of your business" type estimate, or is the jewellery scene massively different in the US?
 
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I guess it's my turn.
My engagement ring is going to be $899.00, it's being paid for... and I haven't officially received it or anything, and he will ask my mother first.
We hope to get married in April if all goes well.
 
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edit to add: Redguard, is that engagement ring price a typo, a "none of your business" type estimate, or is the jewellery scene massively different in the US?

I don't live in the US. :)
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?

About £200 ($400)

How long were you together before being engaged?

Erm unoffically a month. Officially it was 6 months.

How long were you engaged?

a year

What time of year did you get married?

August

Would you change anything?

Would have got married sooner (and maybe in Vegas by an Elvis impersonator - it was my dream wedding but unfortunately dh is more traditional than I am).
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? Not sure

How long were you together before being engaged? 7.5 months

How long were you engaged? little over two months

What time of year did you get married? We got married in March

Would you change anything? Nope, it was perfect for us. We got married on the beach with just family and then had a reception about 3 weeks later. I loved it

:)
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?
It was valued at $7000 (DH's grandmother left him the diamond when she passed for him to use when he got married) DH had the ring special made for me.

How long were you together before being engaged?
We dated for 1 1/2 months, but were friends for two years prior.

How long were you engaged?
about 5 weeks.

What time of year did you get married?
Winter

Would you change anything?

Not one thing. It has all been more wonderful that I could have ever imagined.
 
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MyaShane

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How much was spent on the engagement ring? Around $80. It’s just a simple silver band which is all I wanted. I’m a no frills gal.

How long were you together before being engaged?
1 ½ years.

How long were you engaged?
Hmm…not sure that I remember. < a year.


What time of year did you get married?
October

Would you change anything?
My husband and his dad were estranged then. I never even met him and his wife until after we were married. I know my husband now regrets that he wasn’t there. I also would have liked to have had the wedding at Wrigley Field, but that might have been a lil out of our budget.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? $100 (and yes it was what I actually wanted)

How long were you together before being engaged? 3 years

How long were you engaged? 1.5 years

What time of year did you get married? Late spring

Would you change anything? Yes.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? $400-ish

How long were you together before being engaged?
We met in person about 8 months before we got engaged. I was ready to marry him on the spot, though.

How long were you engaged? about 6 months

What time of year did you get married?
July. In Texas. Bleh.

Would you change anything?
If I'd had my say and government bureaucracies and family preferences hadn't been an issue, we would've married in the spring, in a field of wildflowers, with just us and the preacher. And maybe a friend or two. But who knows - I might've regretted not having a traditional wedding later.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? $1,500 (approximately)

How long were you together before being engaged? Ummm...about 18 months as a couple, but we'd had a close friendship for 5 years.

How long were you engaged? 8 months.

What time of year did you get married? late summer

Would you change anything? A handful of things.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?

I honesty don't remember. My husband designed the ring himself, but we used stones we already had from jewelry that had meaning to us but that we would not ever wear again. I have no idea what the cost turned out to be, or what it would have been if we hadn't already had the diamonds. It doesn't matter to me if it was $50 or $5,000.

How long were you together before being engaged?

Three months.

How long were you engaged?

Two months.

What time of year did you get married?

January, so winter.

Would you change anything?

There's quite a bit I would have liked to have been different, but none of it was in our control. All in all, based on our circumstances, it was as perfect as it could have been, so under the same circumstances I would not have changed anything.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? Not sure exactly

How long were you together before being engaged? About 18 months

How long were you engaged? 7 months

What time of year did you get married? May

Would you change anything? Yes, but a lot of it would require having more money at the time, so, moot point
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?

Honestly, this sort of question just begs people to make up BS. You spend what you can afford

How long were you together before being engaged?

6 months

How long were you engaged?

2 months

What time of year did you get married?

Fall, October

Would you change anything?

No, Orthodox weddings take place inside the Church and there's no room for compromise so weather just isn't a factor.
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring?
Nothing on the actual engagement ring. It was his moms from her first marriage. He did get me a promise ring for $50 from Ebay that I LOVE!

How long were you together before being engaged?
Met the end of June. Started dating in August. Engaged end of November. So we only knew each other 5 months. 3 of which we were dating.

How long were you engaged?
Just over 1 month.

What time of year did you get married?
New Year. (Ok, so the courthouse was closed and we had to go in January 2nd. Close enough.)

Would you change anything?
Yes. I had always dreamed of a huge tradiational wedding. Even had most of it planned out in high school except for who I was going to marry... One reason why I would like to renew vows for our 10th anniversary. That way my family and friends can be involved.


I don't live in the US. :)

Redguard, don't worry about. You would be surprised how many people from the US ask me if North Dakota is in Canada. (Second question asked when people find out that's where I was raised. First question is "Isn't it always cold there?") So be proud your a Canuck! (I've got quite a few friends from up there, and actually have family up there that I have never met before. So I have nothing against Canada.)
 
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How much was spent on the engagement ring? Nothing. I didn't have one.

How long were you together before being engaged? Umm...it was more of an agreement. This was before I came back to Christ, and I got pregnant. So we decided to get married. We were together about 9 months when I got pregnant. Not an ideal situation, I know, but we are very happy, and we have been married almost 10 years.

How long were you engaged? About a year. We waited until after the baby was born to get married so we could have a wedding.

What time of year did you get married? Fall. We are from New England, and I always wanted a New England Fall wedding.

Would you change anything? I wish we had done things more "officially", I guess, but as far as reality is, I wouldn't change a thing. I have a wonderful husband and family, and I thank God every day for these blessings.
 
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