Have you been reading other posts in this thread, pescador? All of us have agreed that we need God's grace, first and foremost. However, we've also talked about the fact that once we become a new person in Christ, we will start living as Christ taught us to. That's where we're at with it now. Do you have any thoughts on how we should be practicing the teachings of Jesus in our lives (not because we are trying to "work our way to heaven", but because we are new creatures in Christ)?
I have seen a variety of posts in this thread with differing points of view but if, as you say, everyone agrees that "we need God's grace" and "we will start living as Christ taught us to" then we'll go on from there. If we have received the Holy Spirit then we have "the teachings of Christ" within us, although I have a problem with that phrase. Jesus taught many things -- to unbelievers and to his disciples, but all of that was before the cross. Jesus said that the Father "will give you another Advocate to be with you forever the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot accept, because it does not see him or know him. But you know him, because he resides with you and will be in you." So we are not to follow the teachings of Jesus by using our heads, reading and doing what he said in the gospels, but by following the guidance of the Holy Spirit who lives
in us. God has a plan for each of our lives to bring about what he wills through us. We have a choice constantly: live according to "the flesh", according to our own wisdom and desires, or live according to the Spirit, motivated by what God brings alive in us. Whatever God wants us to do, which may be almost nothing or it may be a lot, he will bring about in us. We should constantly pray and read God's word to verify that what is motivating us is from the Spirit and not from our own desires.
Personally I rarely ask God for anything because He is in control and doesn't exist to fulfill my desires. I realize that isn't how many Christians live but God gives to each of us what he wills. I don't have much trouble determining what is God's plan for me and what is my own desire because I have learned to be sensitive to the Spirit working within me. If I have doubts (and even if I don't) I confirm many things with my pastor, another elder in the church, members of the congregation, my wonderful Christian wife, and my children and also members of this forum.
Paul told the Corinthians "God has revealed these to us by the Spirit. For the Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who among men knows the things of a man except the mans spirit within him? So too, no one knows the things of God except the Spirit of God.
Now we have not received the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things that are freely given to us by God. And we speak about these things, not with words taught us by human wisdom, but with those taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual things to spiritual people. The unbeliever does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him. And he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned. The one who is spiritual discerns all things, yet he himself is understood by no one. For who has known the mind of the Lord, so as to advise him? But
we have the mind of Christ.