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Was Jesus married?

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Jesus was a Jew living in the 1st century. It is written by other Jews who lived with him, talked with him, and even suffered because of him, that he had obeyed all of God's laws and commandments, and therefore was the perfect sacrifice.

But by all of God's laws and commandments, are we referring only to The Ten Commandments? No, we are not. Jesus himself quoted two commandments other than the Big Ten when he was asked what the greatest commandment was (Mark 12:28-31). Torah study for Jews of that day, and in many places even today, started at the age of 3, with the book of Leviticus being the first book studied (Leviticus doesn't have The Ten Commandments listed).

One of the 613 commandments that Jesus and those who knew him would have learned was the commandment to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28 and 9:1). This would have been seen as a commandment rather than a recommendation by all Jews of that time. It was their duty to marry and have children.

In Luke 2:51, we read the last thing we know about Jesus for an 18-year span. He had just been found in the temple at Jerusalem, and returned to Nazareth with Joseph and Mary. Note that the verse states 'He was obedient to them'. That has an importance we have overlooked for centuries.

A Jewish father had 3 responsibilities to his son:

1. See to it that he studies Torah.

2. See to it that he learns a trade (St. Paul was a tentmaker by trade).

3. Find him a wife.

Joseph had the responsibility of being Jesus' father while he was here among us. Joseph and Jesus would both have known of this responsibility, and would both have accepted it as binding to them. In order to be a perfect Jew he had to accept all the responsibilities inherent with being a Jewish male. And in Luke 2:51 we read that he did so.

Who was his wife? how many children did he have? We don't know for certain, but the way classical greek was written gives us a clue. There was a formality to listing people in the classical greek. If the man was unmarried and the author was listing the women that were with him, his mother was always listed first, before anyone else. However, if he was married, his wife was always listed first, before all others, including his mother. In Matthew 27:55,56; Mark 15:40; and Luke 24:10, Mary Magdalene is listed first.

In John 20:16 Jesus appeared to Mary Magdalene. Her response was to call him "Rabboni". The verse goes on to state that this meant 'teacher'. Jews have 'jumped all over this'. The word 'rabboni' had three meanings. When a slave called a man 'rabboni', it meant 'master'. When another male called a man 'rabboni', it meant 'teacher'. But when a woman called a man 'rabboni', it always meant 'husband'.

We know that the Roman Catholic Church attacked Mary Magdalene in the 6th century with a feroocity usually only seen in wolves attacking their prey. She was identified as the woman caught in adultery, even though that woman was never named. She was listed as the sinner that washed Jesus' feet, even though there was no plausible connection. She was even singled out for attack in Scriptural revision. Mark 16:9, which is not an original part of Mark's gospel (it ends at 16:8) atttacks her. Luke 8:1-3 states that there were women (plural) who had been healed of demons and diseases, and who accompanied Jesus. But the only person identified as needing healing was Mary Magdalene (singular). I personally suspect that the passage in its original form said nothing about any demons or diseases. That was added on later, just as the ending of Mark that we now have was added on years, or even centuries, after the original gospel was written.

That would explain the missing 18 years. Jesus' position as the eldest son would have given him the responsibility of caring for his parents' needs as they got older. If Joseph died during this time, Jesus would have had the responsibility of providing for his mother's needs. He would not have shirked that rsponsibility either, so trips to India, China, or even Egypt would not have been in his plans.

So what do we have here? Jesus was born in Bethlehem, fled from there to Egypt, and returned to Galilee, where he grew up in Nazareth. He learned Torah, and he learned a trade that would provide for his family. He went to the temple when he was twelve, where he accepted his responsibilties as a Jewish man. He went back to Nazareth. Joseph found him a wife, whom he married. He had children, whom he reared. When his children were old enough to support themselves, his ministry started.

And who took care of his mother when Jesus started his ministry? Jesus' son did.
 

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no. Jesus was not married. and while tradition kept that most jewish men find a wife, it was certainly not a biblical requirement. there were people even then whom God called to celibacy so that they could fully serve the Lord without distraction. Jesus was fully God and fully human, and he was most certainly called to serve His Father without the distraction of marriage.

where on earth are you finding that Jesus had a son to take care of his mother? you do realize Jesus wasn't old enough at the time of his death to even have a son old enough to care for his mother!
 
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Jesus was a Jew living in the 1st century

Thanks for letting us know.
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no. Jesus was not married. and while tradition kept that most jewish men find a wife, it was certainly not a biblical requirement. there were people even then whom God called to celibacy so that they could fully serve the Lord without distraction. Jesus was fully God and fully human, and he was most certainly called to serve His Father without the distraction of marriage.

where on earth are you finding that Jesus had a son to take care of his mother? you do realize Jesus wasn't old enough at the time of his death to even have a son old enough to care for his mother!

With the life expectancy of the average male Jew being 35 to 40 years, chldren grew up fast. When he appeared in the temple he was already mature enough to be a father. I grew up in the country under harsh conditions, and puberty was attained by me at the age of 10. Most of my classmates were equal to me or only months behind me in maturing.

In all likelihood Jesus was married to his wife no later than age 14. He would have had ample time to rear a family from that point.

As for some committing themselves to celibacy, those who did so also committed themselves to monasticism. The essenes are the most notable of these. Jesus was not monastic, nor were his apostles. In I Corinthians 9:3-6, St. Paul wrote that Jesus' apostles, his brothers, and Cephas were all traveling with their wives. So it is obvious that celibacy was not practised by them, much as revisionists would have us think so.
 
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no. Jesus was not married. and while tradition kept that most jewish men find a wife, it was certainly not a biblical requirement. there were people even then whom God called to celibacy so that they could fully serve the Lord without distraction. Jesus was fully God and fully human, and he was most certainly called to serve His Father without the distraction of marriage.

where on earth are you finding that Jesus had a son to take care of his mother? you do realize Jesus wasn't old enough at the time of his death to even have a son old enough to care for his mother!



The apostle Paul was not married either. Im not sure about the other apostles.
 
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ok, first of all, i disagree with your opinion that the life expectancy was 35 to 40. please show me where you find that in scripture. perhaps you are right, but i've always been under the impression that adult males married much later than we do today.

secondly, there is no scriptural support anywhere for the theory that Jesus took a wife or had children. do not add to scripture just because you have a fanciful imagination, that's dangerous territory.

thirdly, i think it's ironic that you're painting others as being revisionist, when everything in your whole discussion on this subject is revisionist in nature and contrary to scripture.
 
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ok, first of all, i disagree with your opinion that the life expectancy was 35 to 40. please show me where you find that in scripture. perhaps you are right, but i've always been under the impression that adult males married much later than we do today.

secondly, there is no scriptural support anywhere for the theory that Jesus took a wife or had children. do not add to scripture just because you have a fanciful imagination, that's dangerous territory.

thirdly, i think it's ironic that you're painting others as being revisionist, when everything in your whole discussion on this subject is revisionist in nature and contrary to scripture.

I'm not the one who came up with the 35 to 40 year lifespan. Scholars have taught that as fact for years.

Actually, Scripture does give us clues that Jesus was married. He's called 'Rabboni' (husband) by Mary Magdalene. He's called 'rabbi' in Mark 12:28-31, and called 'teacher' in Matthew 19:16. To this day many Jews do not recognize a person as being a rabbi, which our word 'teacher' means, unless he was married. For them to recognize him as a rabbi, they would have also recognized him as having been a husband and father.

As for revisionism, where do you think that The Gospel of Judas, which taught that Judas was the hero of the gospels because he helped Jesus free himself from the inherently evil body he was trapped in, and St. Paul and Thecla, whose heroine faced martyrdom because marriage meant an automatic loss of salvation come from? Between the time that Jesus was among us and The Council of Nicea revisionism was rampant. And even though they officially condemned it as heresy, they adopted many aspects of it, such as the body's being inherently evil.
 
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Harry: Do you believe that Jesus Christ is God Almighty?

I believe in Jesus as described by St. Paul:

But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since death came through a man, the resurrection of the dead comes also through a man. For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made alive. But each in his own turn: Christ, the firstfruits; then, when he comes, those who belong to him. Then the end will come, when he hands over the kingdom to God the Father after he has destroyed all dominion, authority and power. For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death. For he 'has put everything under his feet.' Now when it says that 'everything' has been put under him, it is clear that this does not include God himself, who put everything under Christ. When he has done this, then the Son himself will be made subject to him who put everything under him, so that God may be all in all. (I Corinthians 15:20-28,NIV)

God is changeless. The God we worship today is the same person who conversed with Abraham and the OT prophets. He didn't retire and go to an Old God's Home; he is still on his throne today, even as he was on his throne before the earth was created. Jesus is a physical incarnation of him, through being his Son. But he is not to be seen as having taken his place.

God has given us a way around his demand for perfection (Romans 3:19 to 5:10). By accepting God's sacrifice of his own Son in our stead we obtain the salvation that we could never obtain otherwise. But rest assured that this mercy is not indefinite, and once it is 'pulled' those who were defiant will face the same God that ordered the annihilation of others who defied him. We are not in an evolving religion; we are in the eye of a hurricane.
 
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One of the 613 commandments that Jesus and those who knew him would have learned was the commandment to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28 and 9:1). This would have been seen as a commandment rather than a recommendation by all Jews of that time. It was their duty to marry and have children.
Jesus was fruitful and he multiplied. Look at how many Christians grew from the seed that was planted.
 
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I'm not the one who came up with the 35 to 40 year lifespan. Scholars have taught that as fact for years.

Actually, Scripture does give us clues that Jesus was married. He's called 'Rabboni' (husband) by Mary Magdalene. He's called 'rabbi' in Mark 12:28-31, and called 'teacher' in Matthew 19:16. To this day many Jews do not recognize a person as being a rabbi, which our word 'teacher' means, unless he was married. For them to recognize him as a rabbi, they would have also recognized him as having been a husband and father.

As for revisionism, where do you think that The Gospel of Judas, which taught that Judas was the hero of the gospels because he helped Jesus free himself from the inherently evil body he was trapped in, and St. Paul and Thecla, whose heroine faced martyrdom because marriage meant an automatic loss of salvation come from? Between the time that Jesus was among us and The Council of Nicea revisionism was rampant. And even though they officially condemned it as heresy, they adopted many aspects of it, such as the body's being inherently evil.

the word 'rabbi' is not the word used in the original text, surely you know that. the greek language of the original scriptures has been translated into english with the words that most closely resembled the original meaning. you must also know that words in our language tend to take on a life of their own over time. so, nice try, but not buying it. Jesus was not married to a human, and if He had been, scripture would have done more than just subtly hinting, it would have made it very clear. Jesus was married only to the church.

as for the second paragraph... what the heck is all that nonsense about? i've never even heard of that stuff. so apparently THAT revisionism hasn't revised a whole heck of a lot.

nor has yours, for that matter... your theory is just a little more common, because secularists love to debate it. it's one of the many methods satan uses to distract people from the gospel.
 
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Gospel of Phillip:

"As for the Wisdom who is called "the barren," she is the mother of the angels. And the companion of the [...] Mary Magdalene. [...] loved her more than all the disciples, and used to kiss her often on her mouth...They said to him "Why do you love her more than all of us?" The Savior answered and said to them,"Why do I not love you like her? When a blind man and one who sees are both together in darkness, they are no different from one another. When the light comes, then he who sees will see the light, and he who is blind will remain in darkness."

Gospel of Mary:

"Peter said to Mary, Sister we know that the Savior loved you more than the rest of woman."

Some people have taken those statements (among others) and used them to support the idea of an intimate relationship between the two. I guess one of the gnostic scriptures call her Jesus' "consort" too.

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She was supposed to have been a red head too and everyone knows red headed women are irresistible :)
 
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I'm not the one who came up with the 35 to 40 year lifespan. Scholars have taught that as fact for years.

Actually, Scripture does give us clues that Jesus was married. He's called 'Rabboni' (husband) by Mary Magdalene. He's called 'rabbi' in Mark 12:28-31, and called 'teacher' in Matthew 19:16. To this day many Jews do not recognize a person as being a rabbi, which our word 'teacher' means, unless he was married. For them to recognize him as a rabbi, they would have also recognized him as having been a husband and father.

As for revisionism, where do you think that The Gospel of Judas, which taught that Judas was the hero of the gospels because he helped Jesus free himself from the inherently evil body he was trapped in, and St. Paul and Thecla, whose heroine faced martyrdom because marriage meant an automatic loss of salvation come from? Between the time that Jesus was among us and The Council of Nicea revisionism was rampant. And even though they officially condemned it as heresy, they adopted many aspects of it, such as the body's being inherently evil.

Are you saying that you think that the Council of Nicea said that the body, the physical world, is "inherently evil"?
 
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