YahwehisHisname
Now let me ask you this. If your daughter or neighbor or best friend was following a false religion and worshiping a sponge bob doll, is it best to let them be, and dwell in ignorance thinking their way is correct? Or is it more compassionate to expose the truth to them?
Sure I would....but the difference here is I have a personal relationship with my son...and one built on love, respect and trust. My son would be alot more willing to listen to me, then a total stranger...
Without a good relationship, he also doesn't follow the rules I lay down for him very well either. The closer we are, the more he is willing and wanting to follow those rules AND listen to me. If the only attention I paid to him was just to focus on his negative behavior...he sure will be tuning me out when later, I would try to tell him the truth. "You didn't care about me then...why bother now? And why do you always focus on the negative I do?" A relationship has to come first...one of caring and mean it.
I thank you for the kind post...and I will check out that link...
God bless
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