My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, we used to be very sexually active but about a year or so ago we stopped. We both have always been christians but more so lately than we used to be. We stopped mostly because of her beliefs. I don't think that it is wrong for us to be sexually active because I know how much we love each other and truely believe that we will be together forever, the only reason we aren't getting married is because we are still in college and think it isn't the right time, plus we know our families would think we are way too young. I want to be sexually active with her, but at the same time, if she doesn't want to be, I don't want to be either. I HATE wanting something she doesn't want and I have tried to put it in Gods hands on several occasions but it hasn't yet worked. When she first decided she didn't want to do stuff anymore I wanted her to change her mind, but now I want myself to be the one who changes. I just want to be able to make her happy without thinking about anything sexual on the back of my mind. Can anyone possibly help me?