Venting Thread

[KingCrimson250]

It might also be down to another person posting vent a few second later

Not to mention your unselfish behaviour in pushing that vent to the top of the next page, at the price of your own. You've been reading your Bible lately.

Meanwhile I am left in shame and disgrace over hogging the venting.

 

[G.O.L.F]

Not to mention your unselfish behaviour in pushing that vent to the top of the next page, at the price of your own. You've been reading your Bible lately.

Meanwhile I am left in shame and disgrace over hogging the venting.

'the last shall become the first'...i was aiming for that

 

[Im_A]

Makes me want to vomit.

Just got done with an argument that boils down, the difference between her and I is, she likes to make jokes and I call people an idiot to their face. Which is true, but the catch is she talks about people behind their back and I call them an idiot to their face and she wants to be disturbed over my lack of care of people's emotions when they bring up/support things that I have staunch opposition towards?

Never ceases to find moments with women that the irony of the pot calling the kettle black is an active exercise. Happened a lot in another relationship I had. Oh well...I shall take my own medicine as I advised Ethnog and go and have some drinks at a familiar place with familiar strangers.

 

[Bridgettesamerica]

venting.. hmm.. well i live in a place for free right.. well nothing is free. we are accused of everything that goes wrong in the house ... the man of the house loses his temper on about a daily basis and yesterday finally cracked and threatened me then turned on my 17 yr old daughter he got a bit of tea in his face by accident when he came at me to hit me.. and proceeded to call the police and tell them that i smacked him in the face with a mug.. yeah.. umm wow... they came i told them that he threatened me more than once and then turned on my daughter.. and that he has threatened to harm the other child in the house and hold his head in a bucket of water... slap him through a wall .. bust his lip ect.... the cop asked if i had a problem with the lady of the house.. i said no.. and that i really had no real problem with the guy hes just got to know not to treat people like that.. just say what he has a problem with.. ( this all came about because of 2 things. my daughter changed the channel on the tv when his wife took his daughter outside to play, the wife likely told a different story, the other half was that we used a meat tenderizing hammer to break ice in a bag.. so instead of saying hey please dont use that for ice.. he let us continue to do it for months and then blew up last night) The officer seemed to want to arrest him but that didnt happen and today was just a bit awkward.. last night i just went about my business after the officer left. the wife of course is still talking to me.. but i believe for selfish purposes and the husband has said nothing to me.. what gets me now is that they actually told their 17 yr old son who used to be in my sunday school class about the incident.. and of course im sure they were not really truthful about how it happened.. i feel bad for loosing my temper.. but having someone treat you like their world is wrong because of you only and then have them curse you out threaten you & your child.. everyone has a breaking point.. im up to go to school in England (if all goes well by the end of August.) but i really wish it were now.. If I had enough money to live until then I would leave now . i love the children here like they are my own.. and i know that God has used my presence here for good things .. but its just time to go.. im unemployed and i know thats part of the problem.. havent been able to help out financially in quite some while .. ( well its part of my problem anyway, i want to be able to pay my way) I know life wont be perfect in England.. but Im defininately ready to get started. Ive put up a website to raise the over $6289 that is still needed for this but I have only gotten up to $200 which considering it was donated is GREAT.. but is still not $6289, Ive exhausted my resources for spreading the word about my page and im not really sure ( aside from praying) what to do.. if you want to take a look at it google these exact words "go fund me value meal education" maybe you can give me some ideas of what im doing wrong with it... or whatever the holy spirit leads you to do.. ok.. thats me venting... but dont get me wrong.. my physical needs at the moment are met.. and im grateful.. ok.. thanks for listening

 

[Dzhessika]

Its gonna be a very long night my entire body from head to toe is throbbing in pain it hurts to even move from working 10 1/2 hours yesterday and today .I wished I could get insurance so bad to try and figure out why I am always hurting so bad after working on very busy days constantly moving but my lovely job doesnt do insurance for part time employees .

 

[Im_A]

The Im_A is finally evolving.
The Im_A has had enough.
The Im_A is finally being real.

Thank the dogness that this time has come.

 

[Wren]

Boston, I <3 you. Why must you be so expensive?

 

[broken_one]

The Im_A is finally evolving.

....you know I care, dude.

 

[Im_A]

....you know I care, dude.

We both do my friend

 

[Rhye]

My opinion:
You need a night out, maybe just by yourself. Not like a time of hitting up the town or anything extreme. Just if you have the extra money, find a nice place to sit down, have a glass of wine, have some good food, talk to strangers and breathe some fresh air.

You know what I did? After a long day at the library, I had a great dinner (and finished the whole plate) and went ice skating. First time ever.

 

[Im_A]

You know what I did? After a long day at the library, I had a great dinner (and finished the whole plate) and went ice skating. First time ever.

Sounds awesome!
It may never fixed anything but at least your back to typing that emotioncon again

 

[Rhye]

Sounds awesome!
It may never fixed anything but at least your back to typing that emotioncon again

Yes. I think after the extremely loud scream that filled the whole skating ring when I fell down, a lot of sadness got out.

 

[Im_A]

Yes. I think after the extremely loud scream that filled the whole skating ring when I fell down, a lot of sadness got out.

A moment is all that matters more times than not.

 

[Rhye]

A moment is all that matters more times than not.

Yes.

 

[Im_A]

Yes.

*Hugs*

I'm glad it did good for you.

For me?

It didn't do anything. A few hours is a new day tho...

 

[Im_A]

It is 3:17am and I am still drinking and I am still angry and I know I have given myself to anger and relish in my anger because I simply no longer care.

This just reminds me of the fights I had with my ex fiancee. She and others then wonder why I condemn that engagement over praising it.

So tired of defending me. No one deserves me to self defend who I am just as I do not deserve to have a self-defense of anyone else.

A woman let herself be fooled by a marriage whom a man wanted her to do sexual exploits...I will not be fooled by a woman who expects her man to uphold some ideal of progressive perfection, or some ideal that I simply cannot uphold because my nature is opinionated and my nature is to defend my side at all times before I defend the way that chemical reactions react in the brain.

I seriously wonder if sometime soon...I'll be a single man again.

 

[Im_A]

I think it is time to finally unreveal things to my father whom I miss so much. I need to get off of this of damn internet.

 

[LadyOfMystery]

Here's my rant:
I'm tired of meeting really great guys, hitting it off, feeling like he would be cool to date and then finding out a huge no no about him. I've had this happen about 4 times in the last month or so and it's really frustrating for me. It's almost like they're dangled in front of me like here ya goooo and then someone snatches them away like nope! you can't have him. The 'nope you can't have him' being the very blunt issue I have with the guy. My requirements for a boyfriend isn't a lot, they're just hardcore and they can be in a guy, the same guy, not one requirement in about 5 different guys. Just one. I just need to find him. lol

 

[G.O.L.F]

What is it with men and their pride!!!!!

right in the Philippines there was a teacher In the our ministry school. hes quite alot older that me and was always flirting! I knew he liked me but I wasn't interested as more than friends and he never pursued it. plus i was with someone else.

Anyways i'm here in england and single. he comes on my facebook and starts saying he loves me but didn't pursue it because 'Ate chris (ministry leader) would be upset with him'
So I told him nicely he wasn't interested. next day he comes on and spoke to me In there native language..I mistranslated some how and it go a little muddled. anyways he now things that i think that his feeling for me are a laughing matter and has run of to nurse his pride because the pretty white lady doesn't love him!

So he's refusing to speak to me no matter how hard I apologize...for whatever it is I supposedly did...which is actually just not have feeling for him!

I'm sorry fellas but if a gal doesn't like you say okay cool and be nice...there will be someone who does...just get over yourselves please

...for all those guys who don't need to hear this I apologize for the rant...

/Vent

 

[Edwards1984]

What is it with men and their pride!!!!!

right in the Philippines there was a teacher In the our ministry school. hes quite alot older that me and was always flirting! I knew he liked me but I wasn't interested as more than friends and he never pursued it. plus i was with someone else.

Anyways i'm here in england and single. he comes on my facebook and starts saying he loves me but didn't pursue it because 'Ate chris (ministry leader) would be upset with him'
So I told him nicely he wasn't interested. next day he comes on and spoke to me In there native language..I mistranslated some how and it go a little muddled. anyways he now things that i think that his feeling for me are a laughing matter and has run of to nurse his pride because the pretty white lady doesn't love him!

So he's refusing to speak to me no matter how hard I apologize...for whatever it is I supposedly did...which is actually just not have feeling for him!

I'm sorry fellas but if a gal doesn't like you say okay cool and be nice...there will be someone who does...just get over yourselves please

...for all those guys who don't need to hear this I apologize for the rant...

/Vent

People can be like that. A good friend of mine left me because of my theological shift. I told him I wanted to remain friends, but he claimed I was making an emotional argument. Then he started attacking me on my blog, at one point during which he said, "You're wasting my time!" I was like, "Dude, no one is making you come here."

There are many who have an idea in their minds of what life should be like, and if they encounter anyone who disagrees with that, they react harshly. It's definitely got a lot to do with pride I'm sure.