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Update on my friend

CordieLaLa

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Thank you all for your prayers for my friend before she goes crazy because of her ex. Things have gotten worse now unfortunately.

She told me that her ex called her cryin because he is going to take the blame for something someone else did and may face prison. I said quite frankly that he's a punk. He's telling a lie by saying he commited a crime that he didn't.

She didn't like me telling her that and now we have fallen out. Basically she's trying to make me feel less of a Christian and it hurts so much I want to scream, I want to yell.

I told her that I can see what Satan is doing. Me and my friend would always try to hold each other up in our faith and Satan is trying to drive a wedge thru us. She basically doesnt care and has cut me off.

I am so upset. I dont want to get mad. I tried to resolve this in a Christian manner but its just getting worse. I dont want to fail God but she really upset me when she questioned my faith and started judging me. :cry:
 

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CordieLaLa I am sorry to hear of your situation.

I pray that the Lord will bring you direction in this matter on how to handle it when the time is right. And that for now he bring you a calmness so that you aren't so hurt by it. And you can move on and hea. Maybe your friend can't talk to you right now because you spoke truth and truth hurts. Let her have tim and space she'll come back....
 
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Hi Cordi, Keep your hold on Jesus. Get hold of him and the rest will either fall away, or be met.

He is a Friend that "sticketh closer than a brother" You have got help dear.....in Jesus. Just pray and trust, He naver fails. Keep your eyes upon Him, whatever may happen....you know Him.....trust Him.

Praying
 
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Dear Lord, I pray for Cordie la la and her friend that they may be reconciled. I pray the friend see the truth of her boyfriend's ways. I pray she see that Cordie la la is just trying to help and encourage her in the Lord. Please strengthen Cordie's faith Lord. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
 
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CordieLaLa said:
Thank you all for your prayers for my friend before she goes crazy because of her ex. Things have gotten worse now unfortunately.

She told me that her ex called her cryin because he is going to take the blame for something someone else did and may face prison. I said quite frankly that he's a punk. He's telling a lie by saying he commited a crime that he didn't.

She didn't like me telling her that and now we have fallen out. Basically she's trying to make me feel less of a Christian and it hurts so much I want to scream, I want to yell.

I told her that I can see what Satan is doing. Me and my friend would always try to hold each other up in our faith and Satan is trying to drive a wedge thru us. She basically doesnt care and has cut me off.

I am so upset. I dont want to get mad. I tried to resolve this in a Christian manner but its just getting worse. I dont want to fail God but she really upset me when she questioned my faith and started judging me. :cry:
Lord, we know this is the devil and his work. This is what he is known best for. I pray for Cordie and lift her up to you for strength durning this time of trouble. I pray she will lean on you and not her own understanding. I pray she will pray for her friend and turn it over to you to determine what the true facts are. Give her peace and comfort as she sees her friend trying to pull her down. I pray she stands strong in You, our Lord and not give satan any ground. May your will be done, I pray in Jesus' name. amen
 
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