So, if God's love and patience run out on a soul upon death, either God doesn't want all men to be saved or God can't do what he wants to do. Which is it?
I voted God can not do what he wants to do within the context of saving all of mankind. The doctrine of Universalism is a erraneous concept that is totally absent of humanities free will and totally ignores a legal (righteous) binding contractual agreement (covenant) between two parties, that is God and humanity.
What did Jesus say.....
“If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
In this verse alone, we discern two factors in play, that is the free will of the individual to agree to be perfected by God and at the same time, to agree to enter a covenantial contract with God, through the Christ.
God wants that person to allow God to perfect him and God never retracts the offer, so long as that individual within his life time chooses to turn and make the decision. Secondly the person who agrees to be perfected by God is required to enter a conditional covenantial contract, that has clauses that would void it if the person tried to take advantage of God and to abuse it, by breaking it and by teaching others to break it also.
Jesus clearly said that many will be covenant breakers, especially in the last days and to also teach people to do likewise.
God is only one party to a person's salvation and he wants all to be saved, that is why he is so patient and long suffering and gave his only begotten Son, however God cannot break with his Son's covenantial contract neither and is obligated to comply with it, until......
...... “everything” has been put under Christ Jesus, it is clear that this does not include God himself, who put everything under Christ. When he has done this,
then the Son himself will be made subject to him who put everything under him, so that God may be all in all.
It is clear, that there are two parties, that is God and humanity, who are bound by the blood covenantial contractual agreement, who are obligated by its terms.
God the Father wanting to save humanity through his only begotten Son can not go against his own righteousness in order to include all, within a Universal salvation doctrine. God is the other party, who can only make the Son subject, after death itself is no more, within the resurrection of the dead at the end of the harvest.
Jesus said......
“But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.
“Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
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For many are invited, but few are chosen.”
Too bad for the person or persons within the inclusive universalism ideology, who think that they have zero contractual conditional obligations and who think that they can invite themselves and others to the wedding supper of the lamb of God, having little to no regard for the other party, who is God.
Jesus is clear throughout his teachings by teaching....
True and False Disciples
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’
Teaching Universalism is a grave mistake, it is totally absent of humanities free will and totally ignores a legal (righteous) binding contractual agreement (covenant) between two parties, that is God and humanity.