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Unhappy at work!

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Ive been very unhappy with my job the past 6 months & have asked God to help me with this. Ive been at this job for 3 years.

How can hear/know Gods WILL for my career? Ive prayed about this, but His answer isnt always clear? How can I hear Him?

If his Will is for me to stay in my current job, how can I get past the unhappiness at work?

I know my requests are selfish - this is a problem area of mine. Im always asking Him for something instead of giving praise & thanksgiving. Im hoping once I start RCIA & learn about the Church & God that I will know how to be more greatful?

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Well, at the most basic level, pray before you start your work...be it a project, a task you're dreading, and even throughout the day. Tell God that you are going to do this work to the best of your ability, and offer it to Him as a gift on behalf of your husband, children.

Personally, I imagine myself before God literally offering Him a package that symbolizes my work.

You would be amazed at the quality of work you put out when you are offering to to Our Lord as a gift. Anythng less than your absolute best is not possible! It gives you soemthing to focus on as you work, and will improve your output as well!

I'll see if I can dig up some reading for you...
 
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katesmom said:
Ive been very unhappy with my job the past 6 months & have asked God to help me with this. Ive been at this job for 3 years.

How can hear/know Gods WILL for my career? Ive prayed about this, but His answer isnt always clear? How can I hear Him?

If his Will is for me to stay in my current job, how can I get past the unhappiness at work?

I know my requests are selfish - this is a problem area of mine. Im always asking Him for something instead of giving praise & thanksgiving. Im hoping once I start RCIA & learn about the Church & God that I will know how to be more greatful?

Thanks

I can surely sympathize with you, I've been at my job 14 years and in the last 3 years it has changed dramatically! Morale is extremely low and it seems as if nothing we do is right. It has gotten tot he point I actually hate it in that sense. However as ND points out, it is a Cross to bear and we are to offer up our daily sacrifices-[everything we do] in union with Christ's upon Calvary..

When I view it from this perspective it becomes so much easier to bear, when offered up for love of God and for reparation and conversion of sinners and I all the more ask Our Lady for the grace to bear through it well.

J.M.J.
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From the writings of st Josemaria:

http://www.escrivaworks.org/book/friends_of_god/point/60

Forgive this digression and, though we haven't really gone off the track, let us return to the central idea. Be convinced that our professional vocation is an essential and inseparable part of our condition as Christians. Our Lord wants you to be holy in the place where you are, in the job you have chosen for whatever reason. To me, every job that is not opposed to the divine law is good and noble, and capable of being raised to the supernatural plane, that is, inserted into the constant flow of Love which defines the life of a child of God.

I cannot avoid getting a little uneasy when someone, in speaking about his job, plays the role of a victim. He talks about how his work takes up so many hours each day, when the truth is that he isn't doing half as much as many of his professional colleagues are and they quite likely are only driven by selfish or, at best, by merely human motives. All of us who are here engaged in a personal dialogue with Jesus have very definite occupations: doctors, lawyers, economists... Think a moment about those of your colleagues who are outstanding for their professional prestige, their integrity or their spirit of service and self-sacrifice. Isn't it true that they devote many hours of the day, and even of the night, to their jobs? Isn't there anything we can learn from them?

While I speak, I too am examining the way I have behaved and I confess that, in putting the question to myself, I feel a little ashamed and wish immediately to ask God's forgiveness, thinking how weak my response has been and how far short it has fallen of the mission that God has given us to carry out in the world. One of the Fathers of the Church writes: 'Christ has appointed us to be like lamps, so as to be teachers to others; to act as leaven; to live like angels among men, like adults among children, like spiritual beings among the merely rational; to be seed and to yield fruit. There would be no need of speaking if our lives shone in this way. Words would be superfluous if we had deeds to show for them. There would not be a single pagan left if we were truly Christian.'

We must avoid the error of thinking we can reduce the apostolate to the performance of a few pious practices. You and I are Christians but at the same time, and without any break in continuity, we are citizens and workers with clear obligations, which we have to fulfil in an exemplary manner if we really want to become saints. Jesus himself is urging us: 'You are the light of the world. A city set on a mountain cannot be hidden. Neither do men light a lamp and put it under a measure, but upon the lampstand, so as to give light to all in the house. Even so, let your light shine before men, in order that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.'

Professional work, whatever it is, becomes a lamp to enlighten your colleagues and friends. That is why I usually tell those who become members of Opus Dei, and the same applies to all of you now listening to me: 'What use is it telling me that so and so is a good son of mine — a good Christian — but a bad shoemaker?' If he doesn't try to learn his trade well, or doesn't give his full attention to it, he won't be able to sanctify it or offer it to Our Lord. The sanctification of ordinary work is, as it were, the hinge of true spirituality for people who, like us, have decided to come close to God while being at the same time fully involved in temporal affairs.
 
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katesmom, I'm very unhappy at work too. I've come to the conclusion that it's where I should be right now and it's my opportunity to grow in the Lord. There are a couple of things that I do which helps.

Firstly, every morning I pray that the Lord will help me cope with whatever I meet that day- some of the times the things I face up to are very difficult, (I have people threatening me, being abusive and I work within an under- resourced low morale thing called the NHS in the UK..) and I also pray for the people I work with, for their needs.

I say the rosary a lot, and relate specific decades to the things I have to face. So, for example, if I'm having to face a really difficult scenario and feel anxious and worried, I meditate on the Agony in the Garden- and that helps firstly puts my problems in perspective and secondly I realise that Jesus, fully human, shared our feelings. There is nothing that I will feel, no anxiety, no fear, that He too did not experience and overcome. With His help, we too can overcome all difficulties.

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I'll keep you in my prayers too, katesmom, that the Lord will bless you and guide you and send you strength. He knows our needs so much more than we do- praying that whatever is you need now, He will bless you with.

:hug: and :pray:

Cat59 (I've been locked out due to that hacker..)
http://www.christianforums.com/showthread.php?p=13833533#post13833533
 
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NDIrish said:
Well, at the most basic level, pray before you start your work...be it a project, a task you're dreading, and even throughout the day. Tell God that you are going to do this work to the best of your ability, and offer it to Him as a gift on behalf of your husband, children.

Personally, I imagine myself before God literally offering Him a package that symbolizes my work.

You would be amazed at the quality of work you put out when you are offering to to Our Lord as a gift. Anythng less than your absolute best is not possible! It gives you soemthing to focus on as you work, and will improve your output as well!

I'll see if I can dig up some reading for you...


What are you... Opus Dei or something??;)
 
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