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Unbalanced Flatmate

rak

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This mentally unbalanced flatmate of mine occasionally loses his temper for ridiculous reasons and I do not know what to do about it.

Today, for example, he nearly went hysterical because he feared that he was not going to be able to sell the flat in the near future, when we move out, because the cushions are dirty.


Some weeks ago he had screamed at me because I was apparently not thrifty enough with my own money for his liking, because I occasionally buy a coke from the supermarket when I get thirsty.

I do not find it fair that I am paying rent for a flat in which I cannot even do as I please for fear that it may agitate him, but I do not know what to do about it.

I do not have a lot of money to get a place of my own and I have too much work to do as a student to worry about what this man is going to get worked up over on the next day and my sister is tired of me staying at her place to avoid going home. Help!