Girls, just a quick note to tell you that I don't have one millimetre of respect for this kind of 'listing' from the side of us Christian guys, either. Just plain sick and pathetic from you, IP. Especially the 3rd one of these, "She's 21 or up and doesn't drink". You should be ashamed.
Want to explain? God made us to be physically attracted to people, and to have tastes. So I listed mine. God made alcohol, so what's wrong with what I said?
Actually, Suo, answer me this. Do you, or do you not, physically, have your preferences in women? IE, preferred hair length, preferred face and body type, whatever. No matter how picky or open your preferences are, you do. And if you say you don't,
you are a liar. Let he who is not guilty cast the first stone.
See my last post which is on the previous page, I think. Guys, you can't call yourselves gentlemen and write such carnal 'lists'of our girls! Christian guys! But really, see my better-articulated post on previous page.
And I don't take one word back from this.
And why did I pick these 5 of them? Well I picked the ones that can easily OFFEND the reader!!!!
You're the only one who's offended. And, judging by your earlier posts in this thread, it is
your problem. You said yourself that you have this image of Christian girls. Well, Suomi, it's EXTREMELY unfair of you to expect people to live up to an image, no matter how they helped you become a more confident and happy person. You need to get yourself to a mental state where you can
accept this side of them, and still not let it bring you down. You can't expect people to
live up to an image. It's not right, and trying to be someone you're not is exactly what the Bible commands us not to do.
You talk about speaking in a Christ-like manner, but I get the feeling Christ is quite a bit less offended by this than you are. He knows me and He doesn't expect me to live up to an image.
always love the blunt honesty bro. and might i add, good list
Thanks dude - always my pleasure to bring it!
And IP, I am just kinda curious why it is good for a girl to drink? I occasionally have a social drink, but I'd be completely happy to live without alcohol for the rest of my life. So why is that a turnoff?
From my personal experiences (not saying whether it's true in general or not, because I have no idea, this is just what I've noticed in my own life), the "I will never drink" attitude speaks to some kind of uptightness or rigidity, or a need to follow more rules and regulations than I do, as well as an inability to cut loose and have some real fun once in awhile (not just drinking related fun either, fun with life in general). And if it's an issue related to either alcoholism or alcoholic genetics, I'm out, because any recovering alcoholic who's within my dating age (young) is going to have SERIOUS baggage that I can't deal with, and I don't want to breed alcoholic genetics into my family line.
Plus, I'm a connoisseur of fine wines, great microbrews, and spirits, and I want someone I can enjoy and taste them with, who will get what I'm talking about when I say I note a hint of this with some of that, with so and so mouthfeel and an aftertaste reminiscent of this.