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Turn On's and Turn Off's..

ido

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Turnoff: A woman with an overall judgemental, pessimistic attitude. For example, if I tell her something about myself. I would prefer her reaction to be, "Oh, that's wonderful. I've always had an interest in that myself." As opposed to, "Hmm. OK. So, have you been making any plans/goals on how to improve that about yourself?"
Radhead, you really should try to be a little more understanding of where a woman like that is coming from...so what do you think you could do to improve your attitude?
 
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Luther073082

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Turn on: Guys that are naturals with kids
Turn off: Guys that are charming

Not a big fan of guys that are charming? What would you rather them be, I'm curious.
 
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ido

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Not a big fan of guys that are charming? What would you rather them be, I'm curious.
Sincerity is much sexier to me than some charming goof that flashes his smile to get himself out of trouble when he's been a cad - as randomguy called them. lol
 
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Sincerity is much sexier to me than some charming goof that flashes his smile to get himself out of trouble when he's been a cad - as randomguy called them. lol

Turn-off: macho, overly charming, aggressiveness, and disrespect.

Turn-on: intelligence, motivation/goal-orientated, a little quirky, can carry a conversation.
 
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Sketcher

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Turn ons: Intelligence, compassion, humility, friendliness, good humor, honesty, conservative values, creativity

Turn-offs: Self-centeredness, hypocrisy, a bad temper, disrespectful to others, misandrony, stupidity, mental problems, and a penchant for cheating.
 
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Turn-on: Sense of humor, hunger for God, likes kids, kind to those around him, cares about other people a lot and is willing to do things to make the world better.

Turn-off: Stuck up, lives for the moment (and nothing else), feeling the need to be around me ALL the time and share ALL the same interests (though sharing a lot of the same interests would be a plus).

In no particular order.
 
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