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Turn On's and Turn Off's..

BoarderDave

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Turn on: a girl that can be "one of the guys." Have geniune fun watching tv/movies, being outside playing, being active without worrying about breaking nails, getting hurt, etc.. Oh and a girl that tries to do things and learn to do them, even if she cant do them well.

Turn off: party girls who go out to clubs all the time to dance and drink and all that. It's okay for celebrating something special.. but to do it just to "go out" and stuff.. Idk, Im just not too into the party scene I guess. :sigh:
 
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i just thought of another turn off for myself.

Turn Off: Someone who rushes through things..like the second you get into a relationship, they want to jump right into marriage or something a few months later(i know a friend of mine did..she knew a guy for a few months and married him after only dating him 5 months). I like people who actually take their time with this sort of stuff. Its a big step.
 
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Turnoff: A woman with an overall judgemental, pessimistic attitude. For example, if I tell her something about myself. I would prefer her reaction to be, "Oh, that's wonderful. I've always had an interest in that myself." As opposed to, "Hmm. OK. So, have you been making any plans/goals on how to improve that about yourself?"
 
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