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[Katakalupto]

Well, I tested earlier today BFN . But so far TOM hasn't showed up so if it doesn't come I'll test again in a few days.

 

[Jillymac]

Hello everyone

Welcome to bookwormprincess and chillybean!! Hope you don't have to stay long in this group and you get to graduate to the Pregnancy club!!


Sorry to hear af started Tigercub, hope u get a valentine's bfp!!

Worknprogress sorry to hear u got a BFN, hope u get the BFP soon!! STAY AWAY AF!!

I am currently on cd 64, 19dpo, 18 temps above my coverline, (implantation?!) spotting on 9&10dpo no sign of af and lots of BFN's

I have finally made an appt with my new Dr to see her on Friday and to find out what on earth is going on with me!!

I have been reading about lots of ladies online who were 8/9wks pregnant before they had enough hcg to register on tests, so i guess there's still hope.

Please can I ask for some prayer for Friday, I would obviously love to go in and say i got a BFP, however if that doesn't happen between now and then, would you mind praying that they don't discover some problem with me?

Thanking you loads in advance

xx

edited to add: I forgot to say that i got one very faint BFP on a cassette/dropper test but BFNs after that espesh on Clearblue ones, i thot i saw a cross on the Clearblue easy this morning, but i think my eyes were tricking me as it was early on and the digital said BFN,

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

Well, I tested earlier today BFN . But so far TOM hasn't showed up so if it doesn't come I'll test again in a few days.

Are you using first morning urine? It's important that you use the first urine of the day when testing. I donno if that helps or not...

 

[Katakalupto]

Are you using first morning urine? It's important that you use the first urine of the day when testing. I donno if that helps or not...

Lol! I know that, but I didn't use it yesterday. I am going to test first thing in the morning if TOM doesn't come today. Thank you for the reminder.

Jillymac, I will be praying for you!

 

[Jillymac]

aww thanks so much Worknprogress!
I hope you see that BFP!

Hope you're all having a good day
xx

 

[Katakalupto]

BFN . I'm starting to get really discouraged.

 

[SweetBella]

im curious, how often do you ladies specifically pray about conceiving?

 

[Katakalupto]

im curious, how often do you ladies specifically pray about conceiving?

Off and on all day.

 

[SweetBella]

Off and on all day.

thats great!

 

[Jillymac]

I pray that in God's timing I'll conceive. Which i think is different from praying to God that i want to conceive.
x

 

[RN4CHRIST]

Lately I feel like I have been in almost constant dialog with God regarding this. I feel that I have to go directly to Him, because the pain I feel. And the love I get in responce from Him. I start off the day with Lord, if it be your will, open my womb that I may conceive. As the day goes by, and I get discourged- God, is there something wrong with me that I cannot conceive?- Is it really Your will that I conceive. Lord, I really want a baby. and when I inevitably see a pregnant woman(how is it that one shows up when I am at my lowest?) God, why can't that be me RIGHT NOW. It amazes me that He continues to calm me. He keeps on telling me that It will happen in His time and in His way. He tells me that He loves me. and that I am special to Him. He reminds me that envy is not OK. And forgives me for it. I think that is what is getting me through this and keeping me from giving up.

 

[ooOHannahOoo]

I pray every day. I think I usually balance it with asking to get pregnant and also letting Him know that I want His will to be done. Hannah in the Bible desired so much to get pregnant and asked God for that and He blessed her with Samuel. God knows the desires of my heart and I know that He knows what's best for me. It is hard though. I definitely have complained to Him before .

 

[Sign Of The Fish Burger]

im curious, how often do you ladies specifically pray about conceiving?

Off and on. Some days I am at peace with knowing that God's will is perfect, he loves me and wants the best for me and my life. Other days it's more of a "I want to be pregnant NOW why can't I get pregnant NOW what's wrong with me" type prayers

 

[chillybean]

Jillymac,

I've been wondering for you... is it possible at all that your spotting and triphasic temp rise was actually ovulation?? I tend to spot during oulation (and I have really long cycles like yours). That would mean your triphasic temp was actually a normal temp shift. It would also explain the BFNs and the light BFP because you'd now be 10 dpo, which is exactly when a bfp starts to show up reallllly faintly.

Just a thought?
chillybean

 

[Jillymac]

Hi Chillybean, i've not really thought of that before. Really appreciate you thinking about me and trying to figure this one out!
My temps go down after the spotting but still above coverline, however it wouldn't hardly be biphasic if that was the case.

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/173035

Have a look at the chart and see if you like. I tried to post 2 pics of the the lone faint positive that i thot i got.
Today I used a clearblue easy one and there was a very very faint half of the positive line going up the way, but not down the way?! Don't know what that means.

Hope you are all well and I pray God blesses you all with loads of peace and comfort during these TTC moments

xx

 

[chillybean]

Hey Jillymac!

Certainly looks like you are right but that there's a possibility either way! That sure looks like a BFP to me, and the clearblue easy sounds great too! Oh, I'm hoping and praying this is your month!!! Please let us know! Are you going to go for a blood test?

I should clarify, I am 18 weeks pg with boy #4! I like to read the ttc thread anyway cuz I keep praying you ladies will be pg soon!

Hugs, chillybean

 

[BookwormPrincess]

Hi JillyMac,
Thanks for the welcome.
I still don't understand all the abreviations yet, but it sounds like you might have had an exciting result this month - I really really hope you are pg!


Just wondered if any one has ever heard that you can still have periods and be pregnant? I read it somewhere once, and wish I hadn't because even when I get heavy spotting and cramps before I'm due on I still end up hoping, when I should just accept that this month is not the month. Am I really silly? It's crazy ttc isn't it! I don't think there's anything like this rollercoaster every month.

x

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I have a friend that had her period every month up until she was 3-4 months pregnant with all 7 of her children.

 

[BookwormPrincess]

I have a friend that had her period every month up until she was 3-4 months pregnant with all 7 of her children.

Really? Wow, how did she know she was pregnant in the first place? That's pretty unusual.

 

[BookwormPrincess]

AF arrived yesterday ...
Need to find some peace about God's timing.

To stay positive I went on the internet and bought some more OPKs and Pre-Seed for next month. I also ordered a conception curve pillow - that should be fun!Anyone else got one? Also, does anyone else use Pre-Seed?