Bless you friend I would like to share a few verses. Let’s examine
Revelation 2:20-21 together.
“But I have this against you, that you tolerate the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, and she teaches and leads My bond-servants astray so that they commit acts of immorality and eat things sacrificed to idols. I gave her time to repent, and she does not want to repent of her immorality.”
Revelation 2:20-21 NASB
Notice Jesus’ expectation that Jezebel should repent because He is waiting patiently for her to do so but she does not. The idea here is that Jezebel has the ability to repent but chooses not to. Now let’s examine another very similar case in
Romans 2:4-8.
“Or do you think lightly of the riches of His kindness and tolerance and patience, not knowing that the kindness of God leads you to repentance? But because of your stubbornness and unrepentant heart you are storing up wrath for yourself in the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God, who WILL RENDER TO EACH PERSON ACCORDING TO HIS DEEDS: to those who by perseverance in doing good seek for glory and honor and immortality, eternal life; but to those who are selfishly ambitious and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, wrath and indignation.”
Romans 2:4-8 NASB
Again God’s kindness and patience is leading them to repentance but because of their stubbornness to repent they are storing up for themselves God’s wrath and righteous judgement.
So why would Jesus give someone time to repent whom He knows is incapable of repentance? In the same manner why would God be kind and patient towards those whom He is “leading to repentance” if they are incapable of repentance? They cannot be storing up God’s wrath on judgement day if they will repent before judgement day because their sins will have been forgiven. The only way they can store up God’s wrath on judgement day is if they don’t repent.